C.J.
I know it must be hard I only have two kids, but you have to find time for yourself. Maybe plan a girls night out once a month with your friends. Have a playdate every other week with them and rotate houses. See your mom on the weekends so that if the kids do get off their schedule it is not that big of a deal. Also have your mom come and hang out with you during practice. It really sounds like you are so into keeping your kids on a schedule maybe try and relax not everthing needs to be so strict. One day your kids will grow up and you might find yourself with no friends and maybe distant from your family as well.