J.G.
What's the theme? I did a fairy party one year, and the boys made holders for bows and arrows-while the girls made wands, and the kids decorated cookies. I bought bulk fairy wings online real cheap, so everyone dressed up and just played. We didn't need to play any games, they were occupied with the crafts and make-believe play.
I highly suggest home parties of this sort. Pick a theme and do some google searches, you should be able to find some great ideas.