J.H.
Hi J.,
I work at a child care center and your center should be helping with the potty training first of all. What we do is suggest parents use training pants with the rubber pants over them. Disposable diapers or pull ups soak up the wetness and the child doesn't feel it as much. We also have the child help with the clean up process -taking of the wet underpants and putting them in a bag (of course we help and make sure they are all cleaned up). This helps them to get the concept and they don't like the mess or the wetness they feel.
Good luck
J. H.