Put a little gift on her doorstep (sm box of chocolates, steaming thermos
of her favorite coffee, a danish or scone from a nearby coffeeshop,
matching red mug that say "U Rock 50" (write it yourself).
Text her a birthday message that says something lovely and uplifting like
you look better than ever.
Send her a small bouquet of roses (or drop off some from the supermarket.
Get her a gift certificate from that favorite winery (hopefully you can buy
it online).
A warm throw so she can cozy up and read a favorite book.
Write her a nice card w/some loving sayings.
Take her out to a nice dinner & share a nice bottle of wine. Give her a small gift of jewelry (it can be costume or some small fine jewelry.