I went through this same thing when my OB retired back in 2005. My husband and I hadn't started trying for kids yet but I knew I wanted to find the doctor who would be there through my pregnancy sometime in the future. We have been extremely happy with my OB/GYN. I know you said you prefer a female, but I wanted to pass my dr. name on. It is Charles R. Downey with Richardson OB/GYN located off the George Bush Turnpike at Renner. He does deliver at Baylor Garland but also at Richardson Regional (Which I HIGHLY recommend)! He does have a PA (Physician Assistant) who is female and she is actually the one who I saw everytime I went in for check ups until there was an abnormality with my pregnancy and then I started seeing my doctor. She is awesome! Very patient and knowledgeable and would answer questions I didn't even know I had! She is a newer mother as well so it is all pretty new to her and she has great advice. I had been off BC for 2 years and not gotten pregnant yet. After talking with Allison, and getting a few suggestions, I was pregnant in 2 months! He is a single practice so there are other doctors on call but, he was at my delivery even though he was not on call that night. The weekend my daughter came was very long so I will try and make this short...! I went into labor Sat. night about 10:45 pm and my doctor showed up Sunday afternoon. My daughter did not decide to make an appearance until Monday morning at 2:16 am and my dr. was still with me! I had not been dialated AT ALL on my Thursday appt., which was still a week until my due date, and we went ahead and scheduled induction for a week after my due date since appt. are hard to get. But, she decided to go ahead and come that weekend. After about 22 hours she FINALLY decided she would move down far enough for me to start pushing but she was turned sideways so everytime I would push, she would come down a little but then go back up! After about 3 1/2 hours of pushing (with a couple 10 minute breaks) I started begging for a c-section but my doctor and husband kept cheering me on and didn't want to do it. We did end up having to use suction to help her out but it was not by c-section which now I am very happy about!
I know this was a long explanation but I DO love my doctor and his practice. Just in case...his number is ###-###-####. Oh, and I do not get commission for referrals!