Girl!
I know what you are talking about. It is so hard to do and seems so easy to say what you are going to do, then to actually do what you say your going to do. I am in the same situation as you! So don't feel bad, after my first child it was easy and then I got married and then I had another child. Seems like it was so much easier cause I was working full time with my first child and also a mother. It is very hard to get it off with my second child. I think a lot has to do with me not working full-time and I am home full-time with my kids. It is really hard to get me time with my kids. So don't feel bad.
There are so many diet programs out there, you just need to do what is best for you schedule. I have heard of the three hour diet, which are smaller portions, but you eat every three hours when you are awake. Make sure to stay clear of any pills about loosing weight. There are too many out there on the market now and I don't think they are so good for your body. This is what I would do and what I try to do, drink plenty of water 8+ a day, eat right, make sure you are eating veg's and fruits and plenty of them and if you eat meat red meats. What I would do too is cut down your intake of pop. I know I am still trying to stop myself of that, but it really isn't good for you. It is so hard when I go to a place not to get a Pepsi. I do love the taste, but get an ice tea or a lemonade in stead. I think I may have lost some with in a couple of weeks of not drinking pop. You can not believe all of the sugar that is in there. I would recommend drinking more water, milk, orange juice(any type), but just trying to avoid pop of any kind. I have already noticed a difference in myself. Don't get me wrong though I also find myself giving in when I do go out to eat. It is really easy to do. I think one so often isn't really going to hurt, but I just wouldn't do it every day. Also, I have heard of a Subway diet. I have been eating there a lot too, and maybe that is helping me too. They have wrapes, and low carb meals, and even salads. Try the Subway Club! That is my favorite! The main thing about what you eat is also working out. It can be hard at times, but simple walking is very good for you. Go to the mall before it opens and walk there, or get a treadmill, or a home gym. I am still trying to get mine set up! lol! Well, whatever you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck. Let me know what you decide to do, and if it works! So I can try it too! Good luck Girl!
C.