D.:
I am in your same camp, I loved my body and after my first pg everything went south :o). I lost all my pregnancy wait and even more but my belly was stretched so I am not comfortable wearing a bikini anymore. I did nothing about it b/c I knew I would get pregnant again, I am expecting my second in Feb so after that I will think about this long and hard. My sis in law had a breast lift and a tummy tuck, the best thing she ever did, she looks amaizing!!!!! So do what is best for you and you feel is right. You need to feel good about yourself and be happy so that you can make others happy. The one thing I would tell you is to research, research, research. Educate yourself about the dr you will use, ask to talk to some of his patients, make sure you understand the risks and the go on and make an educated decision. As long as you have the support of your family you will be ok. Good luck and if you decide to have it let me know how it went I will need the encouragement.
O.