L.D.
I recovered from the surgery just fine but I think it all depends on the attitude. I went in there thinking that I'm a badass and nothing's going to ever get me down and that's pretty much held true for me. You'll want to invest in some scarves to cover your neck protect it from sundamage while you heal. A tube of 99% natural aloe very gel to apply on the scar was also an essential of mine. I was able to turn my head enough each way to be able to drive my car on my own in less than two weeks. Taking care of your children will probably be fine but your doctor may tell you not to pick them up, which will be hard for the 1-year old.
If you have any more questions or concerns, please feel free to send me a private message and I'll answer it the best I can. Will be sending prayers your way tomorrow for a speedy recovery.