I am sorry to hear about that....I know how you feel. My daughter was 6 weeks old when she ended up at the hospital for a week with neumonia due to aspiration because of her reflux. We did not know. She took medication and the difference was amazing, also, we switched the formula to Enfamil Lipil AR (the one thickened with rice) and fed her often and small amounts; we did 2-4 oz at the time and every 2-3 hrs. And this feeding schedule lasted unti she was 11 months old. Also, I gave her probiotics every day. She was taken of the meds eventually and we used it only as needed. It was scary because of the neumonia. She saw the doctor on Monday and she was fine, just a little cough, lungs were clear, the next morning I was at the ER and she was admittted. She was so little that they wanted to make sure she was better before she was discharged. Because of the neumonia she uses the nebulizer every time she gets sick.
The reflux is mostly gone. She eats everything now and drinks cow milk without a problem. Once your baby starts with solids things will change. Remember to feed her small amounts and often....if you feed her too much at once she is goign to throw up and it will hurt her.
Good luck.