Help Me Create a List of Moral Kid Questions ASAP

Updated on October 18, 2010
J.P. asks from Skokie, IL
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Hi Everyone,

I would like you to give me some moral questions that kids could ask each other while they are having lunch at school. I've looked online and most of the questions are not ones I'd ask kids. The students are celebrating Character Counts this week and I am making "table tents" for conversation pieces. We are encouraging kids to sit with kids that they normally don't sit with during lunch. (Character Counts focuses on responsiblity, respect, fairness, citizenship, caring, trustworthiness)

I have a lot of fun ice breaker type questions, but I thought I'd include some morally type questions such as..... If you found a wallet with 100 dollars, what would you do? What are some more questions like this to include for their conversations?

Thanks a lot ladies.... I am doing this tonight. (I just thought of adding it to my list of CC things to do this week. So I'd really appreciate it if you could give me a question or two soon.)

OH yes.... I forgot to mention earlier that this is for first graders through fifth graders.

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M.L.

answers from Houston on

the bullying question below is perfect. not sure the age ranges, so here are some in varying degrees of seriousness.

"if you saw a kid cheating off of your test paper.."

if someone asked you to do something you knew was wrong or didn't make you feel comfortable..."

"if you saw a person sitting alone at lunch..."

"if you were in a group of friends and they started to make fun of someone..."

"if someone puts in a movie/tv show/magazine that you know isn't good for you to watch/read..."

"if you are having a hard time learning a subject, who can you ask for help and when..."

"if you are served something for dinner by your family or someone else that was gross, how do you respond..."

"if you are asked to deliver yummy treats to a sick neighbor without taking any treats, but a friend sees and tries to take one..."

"if you knew someone who needed help, who would you talk to..."

"if you knew someone who was being hurt by another and they asked you not to tell, what do you do..."

"if you knew someone who didn't have any food to eat..."

"if you knew someone who was very sad..."

"if you smell smoke in your house..."

"if someone offers you a ride..."

"if you see someone being taken, what do you try to remember and who do you tell and when..."

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R.J.

answers from Seattle on

From the classic psychological "what stage of development is this child/person at" (concrete, etc.)...

If stealing is almost always wrong... can you think of any times when it is or was the right thing to do? ((Examples: the children "living rough" aka homeless during the blitz in london in WWII... necessary medicine at any point in history or the present... ... lost in the woods and find someone's empty vacation cabin... fleeing for your life, would you steal a blanket to keep from freezing to death, or a child from freezing to death... etc.most of the "right" answers, and there are hundreds of examples, are in situations where stealing is lifesaving and either the only way to go about it, or every other option -charities, social services, etc have either been exhausted or don't exist. So there are many many reasons when stealing, which is wrong, is the right thing to do.))

There are TOO many to even to list... but "Philosophy for Kids" by David A White, Phd... is a phenomenal book.

Here's two examples from the "Values" section:

Should you ever tell a lie / Is a lie ever justified?
- If your mother asked if you had a cookie, and you had, would you lie and deny it?
- If your best friend was wearing an extremely unattractive outfit, would you lie and tell her she looks great, even when she looks like a walking disaster?
- If you knew you could get someone you really didn't like into trouble by telling a lie about that person would you do it?
- If you knew you could get accepted into a very good university by lying on your application for admission, would you do it?
- If you could become wealthy by telling a lie, would you do it?
- If you could save a person's life by telling a lie, would you do it?

The book then goes on to talk about different views surrounding lying. Like Emanuel Kant, that lying is never justified to the quote "Lying is an indispensable part of making life tolerable"

Is violence ever justified?
- If you have been continually harassed and bothered by the class bully, are you justified in hitting this person?
- If you belong to a group of people who, for some reason, have been treated unjustly, are you and your group justified in using violence?
- If your country has been attacked by another country, are you justified in using violence to defend your country?

The book then goes on to talk about MLK, Ghandi, etc.

Here are some more topics from Values (philosophers who weigh in on the topics span from Plato to Thoreau to Einstein, plus artists/ writers:

1 Are you a fair and just person?
2 How do you know who your friends are?
3 Should you be rewarded for your efforts in school?
4 Should you let little things bother you?
5 Is it your duty to give to charity?
6 Will having fun make you happier than studying?
7 Should you ever tell a lie?
8 Are there times when you should be violent?
9 Do you sometimes feel weird when you are with others?
10 Do we control technology, or does it control us?

IV- Critical Thinking
32 Should you always listen to the opinions of others?
33 Should you critisize people or the opinions people have?
36 If many people think something is true, is it true?
37 Do two wrongs balance out to make a right?
38 Can something logical ever not make sense?

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M.D.

answers from San Francisco on

When was the last time you had to say "sorry" and what was it about?

Complete the sentence We were put on this earth to ____.

What would you do if you won the lottery and had one day to spend all of it?

What is one thing you saved for but realized wasn't worth it after all?

If you could say a special thank you to someone, who would that be and why?

What is your favorite dessert and would you share it?

Do our daily actions become who we really are?

If you could help anyone succeed at one thing who would it be? In what way?

If you were to describe trust, what color would it be and why?

What is the difference between peace and getting along?

If you had $100,000 to give away, who would you give it to and why?

When you hear the word "unfair" what do you think of?

Rich can mean many things. In which way do you feel rich?

These came from a game called "conversations to go" by Moonjar.

Really awesome!

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J.C.

answers from Anchorage on

Not sure about the age of the kids, but with recent events maybe something about bullying, like "if you saw a kid being bullied what would you do?"

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R.M.

answers from Topeka on

If you saw a friend steal something, what would you do? Would you tell someone?

If you were with a friend and they shoplifted...what would you say or do?

How would you handle it if you knew that one of your friends was very unhappy at home and needed a friend to talk to about it ?

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C.W.

answers from Santa Barbara on

"What would you do if you found something that wasn't yours (money, cell phone, binder...)? I liked this with my daughter when she was younger. She found a $20 bill at school turned it to the office because she knew how heartbroken she would be if she lost it. They ended up giving it to her because nobody claimed it.

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F.B.

answers from Fort Collins on

If you borrowed something from someone and it got broken, what would you do?

If your sibling was very sick and you could help by going through an operation to donate bone marrow, would you volunteer for the operation?

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