K.S.
Hi K.. I replied to your other post. As with the night waking my son has been doing a similar thing after always going to bed easily with the same routine (and the night waking). I am more and more sure it is the separation anxiety - I have found for the going to sleep bit, is that it's worth bringing them out of of their room for another 10 to 15 mins so they get calm. Giving them a cuddle and reading to them (ie quiet activities) and then trying again. Keep on repeating this if they start crying again. Basically I am reassuring him that I am there but still putting him to bed again.