R.R.
I learned the majority of my tricks from the Cake Mix Doctor aka Anne Byrn who specializes in "tweaking" cake mix directions.
http://www.cakemixdoctor.com/
Basically, she increases the eggs from 3 to 4, always using large ones, changes the water to milk and decreases the amount to 1 cup, increases the oil to 1/2 cup, adds a small package of instant pudding mix (I add it even to mixes that have pudding in them, using vanilla for white or yellow mixes, chocolate for devil's food or German chocolate), and adds a teaspoon of vanilla extract (don't use the imitation stuff, bleh) to achieve a homemade taste.
She has an awesome recipe using a devil's food mix, Red Velvet Cupcakes with White Chocolate Peppermint Cream Cheese Frosting I make on Christmas Eve, it bakes up as a cake just fine and everyone loves it:
http://www.cakemixdoctor.com/recipe/red-velvet-cupcakes-w...
BTW, her recipes for Snickerdoodle Cupcakes, Cotton Candy Cupcakes, and Jelly Doughnut Cupcakes are my grandkids faves for their birthdays or other special occasions :)