I definitely agree with the other moms that said take the t.v. out of his room, and set a routine. I personally think that kids don't have any business having their own t.v. They do get addicted to it, they watch things that are inappropriate for their age, they miss out on family time, they watch t.v. instead of do their chores and homework (or when they are not supposed to- i.e. instead of sleeping), and they spend less time being active/outside/engaging with others, which can lead to obesity, health, and social issues later. My recommendation is to get rid of the t.v. altogether, or move it to a rec room. When I was a kid, my dad made a lock for the cord of the t.v., and used it to lock us out when we were grounded. It was very effective, and we never dared to mess with it. If you want details on it, just send me a message. I would also start a routine with all of them as soon as possible. Kids thrive on routines, and with four kids, you'll want one to keep your sanity. Try to start the routine at the same time every night- say 7:30, for example. Have them do things in the same order every night so they know what to expect. That way, there isn't any discussion- they put p.j.'s on, they brush teeth, and they know they get one book (or a certain number of minutes to read), and they go to bed at 8 or 8:30 at the latest (the same time every night). Jordan definitely needs a good night's sleep to be able to function in school. If the room is too light with the blinds closed, you can get room darkening curtains- I have them in my room and they work very well (have in JCPenney catalog). Make bedtime special (special time to read with Mommy or Daddy). At first it will be very hard to follow through, especially with a new baby, but it will be very worth it. Every time he gets out of bed, put him back in bed. Eventually he will quit testing you (and if the t.v. isn't there to keep him awake, he'll get bored and go to sleep), and things will get easier. Remember, you are the parent- it's not your job to be their friend, it's your job to raise them the best you can by setting boundaries, enforcing your rules, and still loving them to pieces. They'll all be better off for it later...and will probably thank you. I know I've thanked my parents! =) Good luck, and stay strong! You can do it!