J.M.
Hi G.:
As you would imagine,its very difficult to give advice,when you hear merely one side of an argument.Under the circumstances,the best thing you could do is stay cool, calm and collective,if approached by your superiors on the subject. As a rule,when an individual appears more stable and in better control of their emotions,they become more believable.If they are steadfast and calm in their demeanor, they exhibit self control. If you act eager to be heard,speak loud,and come across frustrated,or on edge,you appear less believable.It's difficult to do this at times.Especially when your dealing with clever individuals,that boast of their ability to create trouble,or havoc with little effort.I wish you the best. J. M.