Good Morning D.,
I sure hope my letter of intent can help shed some fears that your having over homeschooling. I wish to say first of all that homeschooling does not mean that your grandson will not get socialization, many schools offer programs where you can bring him into the school just for gym or another subject. I know because I have done that already, so that's a farse when people say, "well, what about socialization?" The children learn to socialize everyday of their young lives, they don't need to be around other children that are bullies, which is what happens to many children.
It happened to my son because no child or teacher understood him. Yes, even the teachers would be rough with him. And yes, they wanted my boy on meds too, to control him, I said no way! No child needs to be on pills, they need to have their own minds, no matter what.
I am a single mom that is 53 & I have a 13 yr old boy that went to the public school system from K-5. Then, we decided that what was best for my specially gifted child that has Asperger's, ADHD, & ODD, needed was to be homeschooled, because of being so highly intelligent, we wanted to further that. In public school the ratio is 40 children to 1 teacher, how can they learn when they are special needs children?
My boy needed to be able to come & go as he pleased, to be able to do the work at his pace, one subject at a time. That is how the children focus, putting 4 -6 subjects a day on them can be overwhelming for any child. And not having to worry about bullies. My son in public school is a genius and all of the children flocked to him, they didn't understand him, but took a liking to him, he never liked to be the center of attention, however he used to tutor when he was 6 yrs old in Math & English in my home to other students. He also took karate for 3 years. Ages 5-8, it was a great way to introduce him to people.
We are going on our 4th yr. of homeschooling now, and we love it now more than ever! So, it's only my opinion but I say if you have the time & patience & are willing to give your grandson the attention that he so deserves, then go for it honey! You'll love it. I know many moms now that homeschool. I am even in a homeschool support group, I am sure they have them in your district, look into it.
Wishing you many blessings, in your choice, hope it's the best for your grandson, he will do just fine sweetie, no matter what, I'm sure.
Have a good week,
M.