oh gosh.
My late Dad... had high blood pressure, heart problems, loved good food, was Diabetic, and... he died because of it.
Your Husband, needs to see or get referred to, a Nutritionist.
It is very possible to eat healthy and good food.
Just FYI: but rice (white rice) is a simple starch.... and very not good, as most simple processed starches is. You can, replace it with brown rice.
And NO.... meds or blood pressure meds... does NOT, 'cure' the medical problem. Your Husband needs to know that.
Please show him my reply, if you think he can understand.
My Dad died, because of those things.
My Dad died, fairly young. Only in his 60's. And yes, we as his children... were very saddened and I still miss him, very much. Everyday.
And yes, my late Dad... ALSO had had a Stroke. Too.
And, this is very debilitating. AND he could not work AND his eyes were almost blind.
I do not mean to scare you.
But your Husband needs to know, how PROFOUNDLY.... bad, this is.
And how his eating... will really damage his body.
He needs to see a Nutritionist for his conditions... AND take classes on it and exercise. Even just walking up and down the street... is fine.
AND perhaps he needs to join a community support group.... for overweight people or compulsive eating.
And you... need to learn how to cook healthy, maybe seeing a nutritionist as well.
As a wife, nagging won't help. My Mom did not help my dad by doing that. So I know.
They are in denial.
My Dad died.... because of those medical conditions.
Your Husband needs to see his Doctor.
And I would also wonder if he is Diabetic. Being he is so overweight.