How Many Moms... (Breastfeeing ?)

I breastfed my daughter for about 6 weeks before I started having problems. But, I didn't read a lot of books or really try to get help to solve the problems. You sound like you are well prepared! MUCH more prepared than I was, and I had taken a class (one day)! lol

At the very least, it is definitely worth trying! And if you have any problems, consult with whoever you can to solve it! My problem was that I was trying to finish up my last couple months of college, worrying about finding a job and money, etc. etc... Plus my husband was out of the state for a month or so after she was born... just too many stressful factors going on!

I'm hoping that if we have another baby someday that I will be able to breastfeed much longer than 6 weeks, but we'll see!

23 months and no problem with pain or cracked nipples at all. My daughter took to it like a duck to water. I also pumped so my husband could give bottles if I had to be out.

Good luck with whatever you choose!

I think you are awesome to do this!!

I loved it and had little problems. If you're educated and open to help from lactation consultants, I think you will have little problem. I had a few plugged ducts, but they were solved with the help of the baby and the lactation consultants. I will confess that I kept the Elizabeth Blackwell Center lactation consultant line and the La Leche League numbers at the ready for any fear, problem, etc. They helped me through the entire time. I may have had more issues had I not talked to them every so often.

Breast of luck! hahahahaha Sorry, that is really bad.

I was completely OPPOSED to the idea of breastfeeding. I have really sensitive nipples, and don't really like any kind of nipple stimulation, so I figured breastfeeding would be horrifying. No one around me (family, circle of friends) breastfed, so I really had little to no exposure to or familiarity with breastfeeding, so it was a really foreign and intimidating prospect for me.

But here comes the big BUT... I knew it was the best thing for my baby. And my own hang-ups aside, when the nurse brought him to me and asked if I was going to breastfeed, it was just not in my heart to not give him what I knew was best for him. So I bit the proverbial bullet, and tried it. And man, am I glad I did.

It was an unbelievable experience. My son latched like a champ from the get-go. I had NO PROBLEMS WHATSOEVER. No cracked nipples, no thrush, no mastitis, no pain (except when I'd get a little engorged from not feeding for too long, easily fixed by expressing/feeding!), and no nipple pain/soreness whatsoever. It was the most wonderful bonding experience. Something you can't totally appreciate until you do it, I think. And it was just so easy. No bottles to clean and prepare, no waking at night to get up and get/warm bottles, and no formula to buy (a BIG plus).

I was also worried about pumping when I returned to work, but even that turned out to be a breeze. No big deal at all.

I am so happy and so thankful I did it. I definitely recommend giving it a shot. No horror stories here. Only warm fuzzies!!!

Best wishes and definitely TRY IT!!!

Never had a problem with it, my son latched on really well from the get-go, and the lactation consultant was even impressed at how well he was doing. We were lucky to have an in home visit (free!) and she sat with us for a feeding to observe and help if needed. She weighed the baby before and after, and at 8 days old he was taking 3 1/2 ounces from one breast! Some babies are naturals! There are definitely some that aren't though, and I strongly recommend talking with a lactation specialist in your area who can work with you to make breastfeeding the fulfilling experience it should be. Everyone is different, so while asking for experiences, good or bad, may be comforting, the most help will come from an unbiased person whose only interest is in helping you to succeed in breastfeeding your baby. Your OB may have someone on staff, or you could look up your local La Leche League for a referral. Good Luck!

Check out the hospital you are having your baby at to see if they have a lactation nurse on staff. I nursed two of my children, one for 7 months, the other for 12 months (both their decisions). The first child had been bottle fed because she was "taken by c-section 1 month early" due to previous surgeries I had, to have children. She did not want to "latch on" and caused me extreme frustration-but the lactation nurse was VERY helpful. Be persistent, change sides, positions, etc. I did get a cracked nipple and it was very sore, but this was after I was home, I learned that putting my pinkie on the side while she "latched on" helped tremendously. Plus, creams for the nipples. They do "toughen" up so it is not a constant, nor frequent occurance. I've known women who never had it. Never had a problem with the second, also prior to birth with the second, a friend (who was having her 7th - all breastfed) said 4-6 weeks prior to delivery to rub the nipples with a dry washcloth, a little bit, building up to maybe 2 minutes, 2 x a day, to "toughen" the nipples prior to the baby....This helped me and I've since told others. Good luck, keep with it, it gives the baby great immunity and does help "bond". Plus, you can hand express milk or use a pump, so you are free to let someone else feed. I hand expressed since I had so much milk-also donated some....Congratulations on your newest blessing...

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I am currently breastfeeding my 2nd child. Things went great for both my boys, but I would recommend being proactive about preventing cracked nipples. I use Lansinoh after each feeding and haven't had any problems. http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2668339

If you choose to breastfeed, best of luck to you! If you choose not to, don't let anyone make you feel guilty for it. It's a personal choice and shouldn't be judged.

I think it's more common to have some issues with breastfeeding, but with knowledge, persistence and a good support system, they will be resolved. in talking with other mothers, I find most of us encounter some sort of difficulty, but it is short lived. Just prepare yourself mentally AND emotionally for whatever comes and remember for the majority of mothers, breastfeeding is a good experience for both mom and baby.

I breastfed my daughter (only for 3 months), but really had no major problems. I fed her directly more-so than pumping milk, it was just easier that way for me. A couple of times I did get engorged due to delays in feeding and man, did that hurt! But warm compresses satisfied all and that was the biggest problem I had. No nipple issues or anything; it was smooth sailing and soooo much cheaper :-)

Don't be afraid...go for it!

I am breastfeeding my 3rd baby. First time around breastfeeding though. We have really had no problems. She is 4 months old now. I did have a clogged milk duct a couple of times which is painful but it was resolved within 24 hours. Just make sure baby has a good latch and that will prevent cracked nipples, pain etc. It is so easy to breastfeed and conveniant. I wish I had done it with the first two. No bottles to wash, no formula to buy. I don't even carry a diaper bag, just put a couple of diapers in my purse and we are off.

I tried for 3 (agonizing) months and if I had listened to the militant, judgemental women who think nothing of 'shoulding' all over the rest of us, my son would have starved to death. You're the MOTHER. Feed your child ANY WAY YOU CAN without feeling guilty. By the way, he's 11 now and has missed only 2 days of school since kindergarten. How's that for a healthy, strong kid? [Enfamil, I love you]

I never thought I'd want to breast feed, but I decided to give it a go and see how it went. I'm sure it depends on the child, but mine latched on the first thing in the hospital, I didn't even have to do anything, he knew what to do. It was really easy for me, and it was the greatest, I'm so happy I did it. I will admit that sometimes it was tiring being the only one who could feed him, like in the middle of the night, etc.. I wanted to go until 12 months, and he stopped himself at 11 months and I was so sad! I loved the bonding.

Currently breastfeedimg my second, she is almost 9mo, no problems!! My first nursed 2 1/2 years, we had a rough start in the begining secondary to a NICU stay. Attend a La Leche League meeting, the support really does help. I avoided difficulties by learning what can cause problems, before having them. Nursing is such a beautiful thing!! Good luck!

I never had a problem and I was able to nurse all three of my children. I only nursed, no supplement bottles or pacifiers. The only issue I had was with my second baby. He was born very sick and was put in PICU. He had an NG tube so he could not nurse. I was able to continue to breastfeeding because I pumped every two hours and they gave him my breastmilk and not formula. Pumping so frequently made my nipples crack and bleed and it hurt but a nurse told me to express some milk and put a thin layer on my sore nipples then let it air dry. It worked! They healed and I didnt get sore again!
I never had a problem nursing my three. Just make sure they are positioned correctly and you are comfortable. Don't let others horror stories bother you. Think about how women breastfeed all over the world and did so before man created formula. Think about how what you are giving your baby is the very best! I heard the stories too. You will make enough milk for your baby. Eat and drink lots of healthy stuff!
My babies are all grown now, and I miss nursing them. That is such a profound time just for you and your baby. You will develop a bond that is indescribable, a bond that remains long after you wean your baby.
Good luck!

I had no problems breastfeeding and breastfed my daughter for 13 months. It was really enjoyable! I did have clogged ducts a couple of times, and a little pain in the beginning......but it really was not a big deal at all. Completely and totally worth it.

I have to disagree though (just my opinion) with the moms who said that breastfed babies are much healthier in direct comparison with other kids. My daughter has been very very healthy, which is great. But, I watch another little girl who has always been formula fed (her mother's milk never came in.......it just wasn't there.....and she really struggled emotionally with that) and she has been just as healthy as my daughter. They have been together since they were five months old and I assure you, when one gets sick the other one does too......it doesn't matter who got it first. I am not saying that breastfeeding isn't healthy.......it's a great choice!.....but it won't give your child super powers! LOL! ;) You probably won't notice a huge difference between your breastfed babies and your other children because of the breastfeeding.

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I had no problems breastfeeding and breastfed my daughter for 13 months. It was really enjoyable! I did have clogged ducts a couple of times, and a little pain in the beginning......but it really was not a big deal at all. Completely and totally worth it.

I have to disagree though (just my opinion) with the moms who said that breastfed babies are much healthier in direct comparison with other kids. My daughter has been very very healthy, which is great. But, I watch another little girl who has always been formula fed (her mother's milk never came in.......it just wasn't there.....and she really struggled emotionally with that) and she has been just as healthy as my daughter. They have been together since they were five months old and I assure you, when one gets sick the other one does too......it doesn't matter who got it first. I am not saying that breastfeeding isn't healthy.......it's a great choice!.....but it won't give your child super powers! LOL! ;) You probably won't notice a huge difference between your breastfed babies and your other children because of the breastfeeding.

I am currently nursing my 2 1/2 year old. I started nursing 9 years ago - it was a rough start b/c I had never done it before but I was determined to stick w/it. Once he hit 3 months - I had it down. I got pregnant when he was about 15 months old and had my second child 2 years and 3 weeks after my 1st child was 2. I tandem nursed them together for a whole year and weaned my 1st child at age 3 years and 1 month.

My 2nd child was still nursing and about 19 months old when I got pregnant again. This time after 13 weeks it ended in a miscarriage. I got pregnant about a month after the miscarriage and it too ended in a miscarriage at 10 weeks (this was a time span of about 6 months). I got pregnant again (he was just over 2 years old and I was on progestrone to maintain the pregnancy). When I was about 6 months pregnant with my 5th pregnancy - 3rd child, when I decided it was too uncomfortable to nurse him anymore.

I had a 3 month break and delivered a baby girl on Aug. 18, 2006. I nursed her and just this past April weaned my 3 1/2 year old daughter. When she was only 7 months old I got pregnant again. Still nursing my daughter and her being only 16 months old at the time my son was born on Dec. 27, 2007. I tandem nursed them for just over 2 years together and weaned her around Easter (much to her dismay). I am still nursing my 2 1/2 year old although it is only about 15 minutes in a 24 hour period.

My 2 1/2 year old was clicking and not nursing correctly (he was kept in the NICU 24 hours after birth for 7 days due to having pneumonia - he was the only one born by C section). I took him to a lactation consultant and she told me he was tongue tied. I took him to a dentist and they clipped his tongue at 7 weeks old. They told me the only reason he was able to get enough nutrition was because I had nursed for a great number of years and had enough elacticity for him to be able to get it past the troublesome spot in his mouth.

Best of luck - you can do it. Just set your mind to it. Contact a local LaLeche group to help you overcome any rough spots you might encounter.

My little one was born 5 weeks early, and while he was a good "sucker" he couldn't latch on properly becuase I had flat nipples. The lactation consultant came to my recovery room to help me and offered me a nipple shield. TADA! The boy could latch on after all! It was not painful for me and my nipples never cracked or bled - becuase I used the sheild for the first 2 weeks of nursing. One day - I couldn't find it and then realized that they baby didn't need it anymore. We had a wonderful nursing relationship from then on. My son wouldn't even take a bottle.

My suggestion would be to take a breastfeeding class - or ask someone you know that breastfeeds to show you how to do it. For me, knowing that I was doing something for my son that no one else could, made me all warm and fuzzy. The bonus is all the cuddle time!

Remember - if you choose to breastfeed or not - that is your decision and no one should tell you what is best for you and your baby. I support you (from a distance) in whatever choice you make.

Congrats on baby #3!!!!!

Both my kids did great! I had no nipple issues (it does hurt a bit at the get go however- that nipple just has to get tuff) my milk came in great, I really enjoyed it!
With baby #1 it did take a bit to learn how to do it for both of us, but after a few days and help from the lactation consultant we were good to go.
When #2 came I was an old pro and I think because I felt more confident the baby did better as well.
Again we all have nipple pain at the start. My toes would curl, but once they get on the nipple right, it goes away. After about 2 weeks I had no more pain at all. I hear that was pretty fast, but because I didn't pump or supplement at all, the baby was on all the time and I guess that helped me get there faster.
I didn't want to breastfeed at all. But once I tried it I was hooked! That is special time I will always remember and some days I wish I could have back. When they stopped feeding around 6 months (both of them) it was sad. I wanted to go much longer, but they choose on their own.
Give it a go and just stick with it for at least a month. If by then you aren't loving it and it isn't going well, then let it go...
Better to be a happy mom with a bottle than a miserable breastfeeder. But I think you will love it.

I've nursed three and never had problems. But honestly, each one of them had 3-7 days of biting my lips, looking in the eyes of my little love-leech, and saying, "I'm doing this for you." As tears of pain rolled down my face. It really hurts for nipples to "toughen." Believe me, the babies were doing it right, it just hurts. But don't get discouraged. It's worth it. I'm still nursing #3 (18 mos now.)

I have had a great time breastfeeding! The only time I had a problem was in the beginning and right after I went back to work. The first few days were difficult because you have to teach the baby how to suck properly. My daughter learned by the third day and it was great because I could relax while she ate. Use the lactation nurses at the hospital and don't give up! My right breast developed a clogged duct soon after I went back to work. It was painful, but massage, heat, and pumping or feeding my daughter every two hours on it made it unclogg. Took almost two days, and now I know to pump more often while at work. She is 6 months old and I plan on breastfeeding until she is 1 year. It just takes some determination, it is not easy but not hard either.

Nipple cracking and pain are normal for the first 2 weeks of breastfeeding. A good Lanolin type breast ointment will relieve the cracking or even prevent the cracking if you use it from the start. You will experience pain and in the first week it can almost be unbearable. Most moms that give up nursing will give up in the first 2 weeks. I promise though that the pain will began decreasing in the second week and by the third should be gone. If you can stick it out, you will be fine.

I breastfed all 3 of my children. The first one until 7 months and I had to stop because of was put on muscle relaxers for about 4 weeks and was told I would have to pump and throw away my milk for up to 48 hours each time I took one. If I was taking one every day or every other day, what was the use in continuing breastfeeding. I breastfed my next 2 babies until a year old. I experienced pain in the first 2 weeks with each baby, but I stuck it out and with some determination you can too.

51 responses--wow! Sorry if I repeat something. Problems? well, it takes getting used to, and occasionally the little one will bite, but you can correct that lol! I nursed my 2 until , well, a LONG time. Someone once described breastfeeding as a dance with a new partner--you both know the dance, but you don't know each other. Your body knows how to nurse, and the baby knows how to nurse, but it may take a bit to get things in sync. That's Ok! See if you can attend a La Leche League meeting, I am sure you'll get lots of encouragement there. I had one bout of mastitis (less than 1 week), that's really the only thing I can think of. (kiddos are 19 and 15.5 now, so memory dims a little). But I still remember how nice it was to nurse them both (yes, sometimes at the same time--we tandem-nursed). I would definitely GO FOR IT!!

I think the horror stories get people's attention, while those of us who just comfatably carry on, don't. It is so wonderful, I hope you will do it.

Hugs to you!

K. Z.

I tried with number 3 and failed miserably. BUT only because I gave up. I pumped for awhile but could never get her latched on, never had any pain or anything though, and really the quiting was just me giving up rather than trying to make it work. I am now planning on giving it another go with number 4. I have a lot of friends that have breast fed with a lot of joy, and very few issues, so I'm hopeful.

Hi and congrats! I breastfed my first baby, for 15 months, no bottles at all. I waited too long to get him to take a bottle and he wanted nothing to do with it. I also breastfed my daughter for 6 months. I cannot say that I didn't have cracked nipples with my son. That is very common especially if you've never done it before and I hadn't. Like someone else also said the cracked nipples come from the baby not latching on properly. Make sure before you leave the hospital, that someone shows you the correct position of the babies mouth. The lactation consultants in the hospital are more than willing to help. I would prepare yourself as you seem to have done by reading and like previous people have said buying the Lansinoh. I used that and it worked so well with my daughter, actually one of the lactation consultants gave it to me in the hospital. Make sure to keep your breasts very clean after each feeding and that if you wear nursing pads to change them. It is very easy to get thrush if you don't. Breastfeeding is so amazing and such a wonderful experience for both you and your baby.
If you try it and don't have a wonderful experience, there is nothing wrong with that. Just the fact that you did try it means alot.

Good luck with baby number 3 and congrats again!

I breastfed both my kids.
I had no problems with it. Sure cracked nipples, but that is pretty common. It does go away. It is nothing that was a big deal to me.

I also allowed my kids to self-wean. My daughter self-weaned at about 2.5 years old. And my son at about 1 year old.

Both my kids latched on great, I had plenty of milk, and I had no real problems with nursing.
But it does take time... because you must feed on-demand... like anything else formula or breast.

good luck,
Susan

I didn't have any problems breastfeeding my second (I didn't my first). The first 6 weeks are a little rough because they eat all the time and you don't really know what you are doing, but after that it was a breeze! I actually thought it was much easier than formult feeding! My first had all kinds of formula issues. I would definately recommend a breastfeeding class, that helped me a ton. Good luck!

I've loved every minute of BF my babies!! I am currently nursing my third baby who is 11 weeks. I have had very few problems! A little painful at first, but nothing that I couldn't handle and work through. I had mastitis once, and a couple of clogged ducts, but the positives have way outweighed any negatives! The closeness is hard to explain unless you've nursed too - it's a really beautiful experience. The worse part is ending! I am overwhelmed with sadness when weaning, and this being our last, I cry just thinking of the day that I will be done nursing. It is SO much easier and more convenient than formula - I really think it is so much more of a hassle to not breastfeed. I must say that is has been just about the most wonderful experiences of my life, and I hope that you love it too!

I had no problems...none, zip. Put baby on breast, flipped bottom lip of baby out (as picture in the Sears book on breastfeeding illustrated). Away we went...no cracking, no chapping, no bleeding...nothing but feeding the baby. I did use some Lanasol (sp??) nipple cream at first, but soon stopped as it didn't seem to be doing anything.

I BF two children...my son 8.5 months and my daughter 12 months.

I will tell you I was not a hardcore pro-BFing woman...I had formula samples waiting at home along with bottles and would have bailed at the first sign on anything cracking or bleeding.

I kept waiting for it to really hurt or chafe or something...and it just never happened...I don't know why it worked...I didn't take any classes on breastfeeding and only had the Sears book because a friend gave it to me and I shoved it in my hospital bag.

It can be done without all the pain and horror and suffering...wish I knew what to tell you, I just tried it and it "worked". Good luck!!

I breastfed six children, and had sore nipples with each until it went away, and it always did.....it is so important to check how each baby latches on to the nipple, and to make sure it has the majority of the aureola (brown area) in it's mouth....and is NOT just sucking on the tip of the nipple!
I know that the first time my daughter( the oldest) latched on, it felt like someone had placed the nozzle of a vacuum cleaner on my breast!
So just be prepared, and do not hesitate to have help from a lactation specialist if you need it.
You will not regret it!

I only wanted to breastfeed period and had no problems. My son latched on right away with a little help from my nurse but once I got the hang of it, it was too easy. I loved it. I breastfed him for 25 months total. In the beginning, my nipples did get sore, crack and bleed slightly but this is normal and goes away once your nipples toughen up. There are great nipple creams out there for such issues but I just let nature happen. I was feeding him too often at first to apply cream. I did not want him to ingest it. So, for me, it was really easy and convenient not to mention amazing. I felt so bonded to him and I really feel it's the best for babies if the mommy can accomplish it. I know it's not so easy for others but for me it was cake!!! I just hope it's this easy with my second. Good luck to you and your quest!!

I've BF 3 babies (each for over a year) and never had any problems... maybe I'm in the minority, but my milk came in, the babies each nursed well, right from the start. I chalk it up to good support and having time to nurse them IMMEDIATELY after delivery each time. With my 2nd and 3rd, I had about an hour each to nurse before they had to take them for a bit.

Good luck!
Jessica

I don't know of anyone who didn't have at least some sort of issue, but no matter what, the 'problems' are only temporary. The benefits definitely outweigh the drawbacks!

I had a million problems with my oldest, sore nipples, baby having problems latching which we later learned was a tongue tie, he had a dairy intolerance, it was a mess. We pressed on and it was fine after a few months.

With my youngest, he was born and latched on and he was a pro nurser within seconds. Never had a problem with him.

Remember that nursing may be natural, but its not easy. Its a learning process for both you and your baby, neither of you have done it before so be patient, give it time, have help if you need it, and relax and give yourself 6wks before giving up, because by then you will have all hte kinks worked out. Every mom, every baby is different, but too many give up too soon because of problems that are so easily fixed.

I have not read the responses, so I'm sorry if this has been repeated. I have BF each of my three kids until they were about 1 and plan on doing the exact same with my 4th child that is due in January. I work full-time, so I have experience with pumping and storing as well. I consider myself somewhat of an expert when it comes to BFing due to all of my experience. I want you to know that for me, the first week or two hurt like heck! And yes, my kids were latching on properly and eating correctly. To me it's just science...if you started sucking on your skin hours and hours a day, it would be raw too! So i had cracked and bleeding nipples in the beginning and it hurt really badly to latch the kids on during those first couple of weeks, but after that, it was smooth sailing! It's like it took my nipples a little while to get used to the pressure (all of my kids were very hard suckers) and the moisture.

I just hate it when the lactation consultant comes in after each child I have and tells me that there shouldn't be any pain. That's wrong! At least for me anyway! So hang in there and give it a try...it really is worth it!

I breastfed all 3 children until they were 15-22 months old (1st was 15, 2nd was 20, 3rd as 22 months). I never had any problems at all -- no sore nipples, no cracked nipples, no infections, no pain, no low milk supply, etc. It was a little uncomfortable the first few days with my 1st but not painful. I think it was pretty easy. I always hear women complaining about how hard it is to breastfeed but I think it's MUCH easier than lugging around bottles and formula and all that. My kids did get formula in a bottle 1-2 times a week when I was out (no matter how much I tried, I could never pump more than an ounce or two at a time - like 30 minutes of pumping even when engorged 1st thing in the morning). My kids all had pacifiers from day 1, too, and they never interfered with breastfeeding.

The only time I "leaked" was a few times when I woke up engorged in the morning because the kiddo had slept for 8-10 hours. After a few days your body adjusts to the new schedule, though.

I also ate whatever I wanted - as per my pediatrician and lactation consultant's advice - because it had no effect on the baby. If they had gas it was from something else, or they are naturally gassy, or whatever, but it's not related to what mom eats (recent studies back that up). We eat lots of spicy foods. I didn't really change my diet at all while breastfeeding (just made sure it was healthy, got lots of fruits/veggies which I do anyways and drank tons of water).

Good luck. Just do it. Give it a good 6-8 weeks and then if it's not working out for you, switch to formula.

I had some discomfort in the beginning (around day 5 or so), but if you keep at it, it goes away and is the most beautiful thing ever!

No trouble at all for me with either baby. In fact, much easier than bottles- no cleaning, no carrying, no refridgeration, no cost.

I never had any problems breastfeeding my son. He was great at latching on right from the start, and the only tough parts were that my nipples were sore the first couple of weeks, and then I had to get used to sitting still and being on-call for feedings. It also took me a while to get used to pumping (while at work), but really, it was pretty easy and totally worth it. I never had any problems (no thrush, no mastitis, no problems whatsoever).
If you're nervous about breastfeeding, be sure to talk to a lactation consultant (the hospital where I delivered had one come and talk to me) and your nurses (my nurses knew I was exclusively breastfeeding, so they all observed and gave me tips—they were wonderful). My sister is a breastfeeding peer counselor for WIC and an La Leche League leader, so she was also really helpful to have around for questions and problems.
Good luck!!

I count myself among the very lucky ones. Even with my first, I did not have any trouble breastfeeding. He latched on well and ate quickly (and often). I nursed him for 14 months and have been nursing his little brother for 9 months and counting.

The only "issue" (and I don't think there is any way around it) was sore nipples at the beginning but honestly that didn't last too long (2 weeks tops) and was easily taken care of with Lansinoh (sp?) cream.

I should note that my husband and I took at breastfeeding preparedness class which REALLY helped us learn the right holds and discuss issues. And we used the services of the hospital lactation consultant just for reassurance.

Best of luck - it really can be an enjoyable experience!!!

not sure that many people will say they did not have at least some 'bumps' as natural as it is you both have to learn how to do it, it is a learning process so you should not have a perfect time. there are so many reasons to try it, at least try it, give it your best that is all you can say you did. and if you dont do it: you did not fail, you tried it is not for everyone. I highly suggest going to LLL meetings prebaby to ask and learn from other moms, finding a support system is TOO important. if you can afford to hire a LAC I would do so, I would keep her number no matter what bc if you do hit a bump you might just need one. we did and it was the best money we have ever spent as we are 20 mo old, still nursing and going to call her on how to wean soon LOL

its gonna be sore no matter what. Your nipple isnt used to all the tugging and sucking on it but after a few days to a week, with proper latch, all should be well! Use a breastfeeding salve on your nipples after every nursing and make sure your nipples are dry before putting your bra on. The most important thing though is the latch! If that isnt right nothing will go right! The nurses will help you and after you go home if issues arise call your dr, the babys dr, lactation consultant or WIC(if your on that) has people that can help you! Good luck and it really is worth it!

I think it all stems from a proper latch. Some babies just are experts from the get go. This was my son. I was like you, so many horror stories. But they put him on and away he went!! I even had a c-section and had no issues. In the last 2 1/2 years I never once had any problems, not even sore nipples. And no, teeth were not a problem either. It took about a month for my milk to keep up with his demand but I took blessed thistle and kept feeding him and he is now almost 2 1/2 and still BF before bed (I don't really reccomend going this long but that is what is it) If you are having issues with pain and cracking, there is lots of help. Lots of women just don't seek it out or just think going with the bottle is easier. I think nursing is WAAY easier. Every woman (except women who have had their breasts removed) can nurse their babies successfully...really!! Good for you wanting to do it!!!

I breastfed three babies until their first birthday. And pumped and worked full time. It was challenging, but worth it. I had mastitis with the first one, and a kidney stone with the second, but fixed those issues and had no other problems. One minor thing that is weird but not a dealbreaker is the engorgement during the first few weeks; the body tries to figure out how to match the baby's needs. It was amazing how my second two babies found the breast at birth and started suckling. I think it's called self-attachment. It was awesome. I hope you give it a shot. Breastfeeding has so many more pros than cons.

Nope, no problems at all...the only pain I had was uterine contractions in the first week of nursing, but that was it. They went away on their own, the baby latched on fine, no sore nipples...it was wonderful.

With baby #1, I was sore for the 1st 6 weeks. That was a LOT more attention than that part of my body was used to. After that, no problems.

I never did make enough milk but was able to nurse him at bedtime for 2.5 years. I am into month 7 with baby #3 now.

I was nervous that there would be problems, but I had none with the actual breastfeeding. None at all. No sore/cracked nipples, it never hurt. I did get mastitis early on with my first, and having a high fever with a 10 day old baby sucked, but cleared up with antibiotics and that was that.

I recommend breastfeeding EVERY child for at least 15 months... we have 3 and I did just that... then you never have to make bottles...that is when they can start drinking cows milk...

I had a few problems and it was all worth it and when I think of breastfeeding, I don't think of the few problems I think of how great it ws for the children and how easy it was instead of doing bottles all the time... there was always milk ready no matter where we were!!!!

I nursed my daughter for 12 months and my son for 18 months, I am currently 35 weeks pregnant and will nurse this one as well...IT IS HARD at first...I never got those women who never had any problems!!! If you can make it through the first 2-3 weeks then you can do it! A great support system is a must...If my husband had given into my complaining with my daughter and said "just quit then" I would have!!! I am glad he stuck through it with me :) Once you both get the hang of it, It is awesome! So easy and convenient!! Your nipples will hurt, they will crack and they will bleed at times, but it is transient. The best advice I can give is take a breastfeeding class and have the lactation consultant come to your room after delivery to assist you with latching. Latching on is the most important step in the process because a bad latch, just once, can really damage your nipples and make nursing quite painful. Also, take advantage of the nipple ointments after each feeding, the best one I found was a balm that looked like a giant chapstick made by Gerber. It is hard to find in my area though. Overall, I am so glad I chose to nurse my kiddos, It is such an awesome bond and once you get the hang of it, it is a breeze! :) Good Luck!!! :)

I do not have time to read the other responses so if this information is a repeat, my apologies.
With my first, I had a few issues with cracking nipples, etc. However, I firmly believe if I had known about Lansinol I would not have had these issues. Lansinol is an oitment that you can put on your nipples at all times and it does not affect the baby. I would highly recommend taking it to the hospital with you and start using it right away. I think I got the cracked nipples because I was learning how to do the proper latch and I did not have anything to assist with the dryness, etc. I had no issues with my second child! Good luck!

I had NO issues with my first child. Nursed him for a year. The first few days were a little painful, but it quickly subsided. He latched naturally, and I'm unaware of him ever having anything but breast milk (either through nursing or pumped) until we introduced whole milk

I really didn't have issues with my daughter either other than initial soreness. She didn't latch as well, but she took to it really well after a few days. I had to stop nursing her at 3 months to start chemo. She was a champ.

My baby was really sick when she was born so for the first two weeks, she was fed through a feeding tube, then by bottle (with pumped breast milk). It took a week or two to figure out how to make breastfeeding work for us, but one day (literally!), it just clicked. We've been great ever since. I would highly recommend it. It's so much easier than carting around bottles and our daughter NEVER gets sick, even though she's in daycare twice a week. And at night, since we co-sleep, she can just roll over and nurse and neither of us really has to wake up to feed her. Yes, it was hard for those first two weeks, but it's so worth it. And I think if you know going in that it might not click instantly but eventually it will, you'll be able to stick out that initial trouble. Best of luck to you!

My baby had a hard time latching on in the hospital and the nurses put the fear of God into me that something was wrong. Then, we went home, and she latched instantly. Many newborns don't latch in the first day or two, probably because they're tired and have just gone through a pretty traumatic experience. The first week I saw a lactation consultant just to get some good pointers. My little girl has been a great nurser from the start. She eats what she needs in less than 10 minutes (even when she was newborn!), burps quickly, and is ready to move on. I didn't have many problems with her with gas, colic, or cramping. It's been a pretty wonderful experience all around for me.

There are very few things I'm dogmatic about with child rearing. It seems to me that there are lots of good ways to be a parent. However, breastfeeding happens to be one of the things I champion. You know from all your reading how good it is for you and your baby... you don't need to hear anymore. What I will tell you is that it is one of the most beautiful experiences to look into your baby's eyes and watch her as she nurses. I love it and it's going to make me so sad when my daughter finally stops (she's 4 months old and I hope to bf her until she's a year old).

Good luck!

I had no problems breastfeeding. Lot's of anxiety, yes! But no actual problems.
My nipples where a bit tender for about the first 2 weeks, but no cracked skin or bleeding, no mastitis the entire 19 months and just a few plugged ducts, that resolved by themselves.
I found it to be a very rewarding experience and wish I had waited longer to wean (I weaned at 19 months).
Good luck!

I'd say go for it and it is great that you want to give this a try! It is single handedly the best thing I've done --other than give birth to my son, of course! My son latched on well from day one and I do realize that I am fortunate in that regard that he did what he needed to do and that made things so much easier from the get go. Make sure that you nurse your baby in that critical first hour, if at all possible--a c-section might make this harder but I can't stress the importance of that first latch in that critical hour.
My nipples were sore for the first few weeks but no blood just getting used to it but I applied Lansinoh lanolin cream after each feeding and that helped quite a bit with the soreness but it subsides once you get the hang of it. Make sure your baby latches on correctly and adjust the latch whenever needed for maximum comfort. A good latch should feel like a tug on your nipple and it should feel like pressure and not pain.
I pump at work now and have been doing it for almost 5 months and it is not nearly as an easy experience as nursing your baby but if you plan to go back to work I highly recommend Medela's Pump In Style Advanced.
I highly recommend utilizing the services of a lactation consultant while in recovery at the hospital. Ask as many questions as possible. All the best to you!

I had no problems with my 1st....only slight pain when i first pumped. with my second I again had no problems only the fact SHE had problems nursing. She still isnt a great nurser ...but I have never had cracked nipples etc with either child. Not saying it is EASY by eany means.....breastfeeding is hard, it takes lots of time and commitment. If you do it .....make yourself got at least 8 weeks before giving up...don't supplement unless your doctor thinks it is necessary for babys health. Supplementing with formula will not help keep your supply up that your trying to build for your baby. If you feed them and 1/2 later they are hungry....nurse again. :) Good Luck and don't give up! You can do it!

Breastfeeding is definitely hard work at times but the benefits are so great for both you and your child. I breastfed my first child who is almost 2 now, for 15 months. I am now in the NICU with my second child who was premature. I couldn't even hold him for the first week but pumped like crazy to keep my milk up and that worked well. I was able to start nursing him a few days ago. What helped me with both kids to be successful, was getting the help of a good lactation consultant. With my first, he was doing well in the hospital and I did have a couple visits with the consultant. She suggested a follow up visit or two once we went home. Initially I didn't think that was necessary but kept the appointment and was so glad I did. She helped me get on track early for having a lasting supply. With my second child, I do not have access to the same consultant in this hospital and the one on staff hasn't been as helpful. So I have been emailing and calling the one that originally helped me and it has been helpful. I plan to see her again once we discharge. Anyway, my point is that for me the key was asking for help and taking all of the help from the lactation consultant that I could. A good website for info on nursing is: kellymom.com

I hope that is helpful and good luck!

I am currently nursing my third son (5 months) and have had no issues with any of them. My second son never even had formula.
As wonderful as nursing is, it did hurt the first couple days. Guess it took that long for my nipples to toughen up. It's totally worth it though. Lanolin cream works wonders and the nursing staff is there to help. Don't be afraid to ask for their assistance while you have their full attention.
Nursing is a wonderful choice for both you and your baby. I hope you have no issues and I'm sure you'll be a pro in no time. :)

I breastfed two babies and loved it. I would say if you want to give it a good try just know you are going to have to tough through a little pain for what in the end is a wonderful experience. With my first we made it to 6 mos, my second we made it to 9 mos. I was ready to quit both times. It's a personal decision and I just wish you the best if you do try. I just hope you find it as rewarding as I did!

I never had a problem Feeding. I had it in my head that I had a problem with the amt I made. My baby ate just fine but I when I pumped, I only pumped out about 3oz and she would drink 6oz, so when I went back to work it was a loosing battle.

here are the pro's to bf'ing
NO BOTTLES to clean (who has time anyway)
its the right temp all the time
convenient
best nutrition for the baby
WONDERFUL BONDING TIME with the baby
you loose weight faster...B'Feeding burns calories

Con's
Constantly having to watch time because you do leak
you do the feeding ALL the time (if not all, then 99.9%)
You have to watch what you eat and drink. I drank milk and it gave my baby HORRIBLE gas. and Anything spicy-forget it. They wont drink your milk if it tastes funny...so you have to modify your diet to a pretty BLAH one.
My baby never had a problem latching, but alot of my friend complained about it and then gave up after a day or two. I HIGHLY recommend going to a lactation consultant or class at the hospital. AND when you have the baby, almost ALL of the maternity wards have consultants on staff(if not the nurses are trained as well) and ASK for help. Dont give up on B'Feeding if you choose to do it..
One of the hardest things is just to relax...OH and get a boppy pillow. they are wonderful.

Personal opinion. I would have B'Feed longer if I stayed home. I felt the bottles were messy when we had to make the switch plus I lost ALOT of bonding time with my baby. I remember being SOO tired because of the nightly feedings and we didnt have any stored from pumping, but I was holding her and feeding her, rubbing her head and humming. What a great memory I will never forget!
Good luck and congrats on caboose #3

I breastfed my daughter for 13 months. I am expecting my second child in October, and will be breastfeeding him as well. We started feeding (my daughter and I) in the hospital, and I had a little guidance from a lactation consultant while there, and it helped a lot. For about a week or two, my nipples were a little dry and irritated, but honestly, it was no big deal and I got through it. In the long run, it was all worth it!

I have 2 kidlets. The first one I breastfed for about 3 weeks but had severely cracked nipples that were not healing, so I chose to not continue. My second went much better and I am still BF her at 8 months old. I think it depends a lot on you and your child. You could always give it a try and if it wasn't working out then go to bottlles. Hope that helps!

I had no problems bf as in no cracked nipples, no plugged ducts, no mastitis, no infections, no thrush etc etc. And I had a preemie who had feeding issues from the beginning. Sure there was some pain in the beginning but this little baby was sucking hard on my breasts LOL and every 2-3 hours. Of course there were some thoughts as to if she was getting enough but I saw all the right signs of gaining weight and plenty of wet & poopy diapers. Stop listening to all the horror stories everyone has their own different experience. Once my little one got and I got the hang of it it was the best thing I have ever done for her. We bf for 17 months.

I had no trouble with my first baby. She latched on like a pro and went to town. My nipples were sore for a few days but eventually they got used to it. I expected my second baby to do great too, but he struggled and we got help from a lactation consultant. She helped tremendously. Both my kids nursed until 14-15 months. Make sure you ask for help when you are in the hospital. The nurses are a fountain of knowledge and want you to succeed just don't be afraid to ask them anything while you are there.

I nursed for 25 months. I never had any problems than the one time he bit me. I screamed, made him cry, and he never did it again. I agree with the get help early with a lactation consultant. I did not have this opprotunity since my little guy was in the NICU but there was an older wise nurse there that helped me get started. I enjoyed it so much I did not want to give it up with our son but we wanted to try for a second. I am eager to get started again with our daughter on the way, just thinking about it. Hang in there, try many positions, get a good cover so you will feel more comfortable when you go out, and relax. I know you can do it. I hope you enjoy.

My only issue was he had thrush, so i got it too and that caused some extra tenderness and chapped ness, But smooth sailing other than that..

I am now just successfully breastfeeding my third. No luck with first two. It was very rough start but I was determined. I found that the pump is what made me successful, when the going got rough I pumped to let my nipples heal then gradually added a feeding off boobie at a time Now 3.5 months later I am enjoying breastfeeding!

I had no real problems. I never took a breastfeeding class or read a book about "how to do it" either. I knew it was the healthiest choice so I knew that was exactly how my baby was going to eat. I made it that plain and simple for myself. I must have been lucky, because even though I had no clue what I was doing, I delivered a lil guy who was a complete natural/nursing champ :-). My son knew exactly what to do and I was in a hospital that advocated breastfeeding (they did not even make paci's available) with helpful nurses and lactation consultants that helped me figure out which positions I found most comfortable etc. The first week I was sore..it takes some time for the nipples to toughen up...but lansinoh worked well and I did not think of it as being too horrible. Honestly, I think I was so tired in the beginning that I was unphased by the slight pain that nursing caused. Also I was grateful by how quick it was to nurse. My son was extremely impatient when hungry. I always thought that he never could have handled the few minute wait for me to mix a bottle..he could barely handle waiting the two seconds it took for me to free myself to feed him :-) Also, you save a lot of money. I had to supplement with a bottle a day for about 2 months around the 6 month mark (only because I work and I could not pump enough to keep up with his growth spurt)...formula is not cheap. I think if you go in with a positive attitude and know what to expect, you will most likely be just fine. Good luck to you.

I have 4 children and I breast fed them all. With the 1st I had a lot to learn and I think most of my problem was just being a 1st time Mom. With the last for some reason I had the cracked nipples and mastitis more than once, but I just kept with it. I am glad I breast fed and would absolutely do it again. Once you get the hang of it it's so much easier than those bottles. I never nursed longer than 9 months though. Good luck!

I haven't had any problems that weren't worth it. The pros definitely out weigh the cons when it comes to breastfeeding. I can't say that I haven't had any problem - at first it was hard to get my daughter to latch on, the first weekend home was spent on the phone with my lactation specialist fro the hospital, and one clogged duct once but after that it's been smooth sailing. Just to comfort you a little, I was nervous as heck to breastfeed because I've always been a little weird about my nipples as it is. And some stories I've heard from the pain, I almost didn't do it. But when my daughter was born it was amazing! =) The closeness that I feel with her is nothing I've felt. Plus I've been sick in bed with fevers 3 times since she was born, breathed all over her and she hasn't had a trace of sickness. She is now 7 months old and we are still going strong! Here's a tip - every few feedings or whenever you feel like it express a little of your breast milk and let your nipple air dry - my friend told me about it and it helps - haven't had a cracked nipple yet. Well good luck - I definitely recommend giving it a go- your pocket book will thank you for it later! =)

I have two. With the first, I did have alot of trouble. He couldn't latch right and wouldn't feed which lead to him and me both crying every two hours....and then the pain cause he wasn't latching right on the rare occasion that he managed to make it on there. I stopped trying for a while and just pumped. Then my Mom encouraged me to try again (he was 4 weeks and I was about ready to give up cause it was driving me to the nuthouse.).....but lo, and behold, he got it. It totally makes sense now cause he was a few weeks early and now at 6 he has all kinds of motor problems which is probably why he had so much trouble. BUT.....I was SOOOO glad I stuck with it. Our nursing relationship has been the best part of parenting so far for me. He kept nursing till 2.5 and weaned on his own and it was the simplest easiest thing once he got it.

With my second, he latched on like a champ right after he was born. I was SOOOO thankful. I had some minor issues with oversupply but never anything all that challenging. He weaned on his own again, about the same time. Always seems once I get them those big boy beds they are ready to let it go cause at the end the night time feeding is all that's left. I hope you decide to do it, there is just nothing like it in the world, even besides all the health benefits and how good it is for them.

I HIGHLY recommend breastfeeding. Breast milk gives the baby the immunity that formula lacks. My baby is 13 months and has not been sick once, thank God. In comparison, my mother bottle-fed me. I had terrible earaches as a child. I just read recently that formula fed infants have a higher rate of ailments including ear infections. So I cannot recommend breast feeding enough. It does have its challenges. I could not have done it without a breast shield, and the help of hospital nurses. I also pumped at first till she could latch on properly. You might find that you doubt yourself at first, about whether the baby is getting enough milk. I doubted myself for months. But my baby was always a healthy weight and I eventually realized I was doing just fine. Whatever you decide, good luck!

I breastfed twins, and it wasn't as difficult as some of the stories I've heard. Did I have sore nipples? Yes. Were they cracked and bleeding? No. I actually had a very good experience, and my twins breastfed until they were 15 months old.

I truly had no problems, and it was very easy. Give it a shot! You won't know til you try!

Well, I had my first child a month ago :) and it's the best thing for your baby. As mother's, we want what is best even if it makes us uncomfortable for a short time (if we can give birth, we can certainly breastfeed, ehh?). I had painful, engorged breasts on the third day after he was born. It hurt, but is bearable...get a good, supportive maternity bra and some breast pads for the leaking. Once my milk came in and he was able to relieve some of the engorgement my nipples did crack and it was painful...I just kept thinking about how much better this was for my son instead of formula (which can never replicate human breastmilk)...also, buy a good cream for your nipples like Lansinoh...I didn't need it anymore after the first week or so. Your body adjusts. I say give it a try and see what happens. But don't go into breastfeeding with the mindset that you can't...it's tough work but the most natural and best thing for the baby...great memories and good bonding for the mother!

I had sore, cracked nipples (one side worse than the other) for a month - and then I suddenly realized he wasn't opening his mouth wide enough to get a good latch. Within two days, I was healed and it was smooth sailing. If I'd gone to a lactation consultant weeks earlier, I would have had that problem solved right away. (I was too stubborn). Of course, looking back, I wished I'd gone immediately. Anyway - it was worth it to me and I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat.

I hope you decide it give it a go - and if you do, commit to yourself that you will absolutely keep it up for 3 weeks or 4 weeks before throwing in the towel if it's tough. Get professional help if you need to - that what those wonderful ladies are there for!!

Good luck to you!

You are making a great choice! Make sure you seek out a lactation consulant at the hospital before you leave to check on your latch. Once you are comfortable with that you will begin a wonderful bonding experience with your child! I nursed on demand and it was so muich easier than to keep track of feeding times, cleaning bottles, ect.
Good luck, and please post later on if you have any questions!

I nursed my son for over 2 years and never had a problem! Even from day 1, I never had any pain. It was something I really wanted to do, and was so excited about. I made sure I nursed him the minute the nurse handed him to me, and he latched right on. Many of my friends struggled, and I realize how fortunate I was. I also pumped for a year at work. I found pumping very difficult in the beginning and couldn't get my milk to let down, even though it would spray all over the place when I wasn't trying, but it helped me get through going back to work, since I could still do something for him, while I was away from him. I wish you the best of luck! Don't let all the horror stories scare you - it can be an easy, great experience!!

I nursed my son for about 17 months. I had problems the first week or so but that was just because he liked to nurse for an hour at a time, and it made me so engorged that he couldn't latch on, but I was able to get nipple shields from the hospital and it solved the problem. After we got that worked out it was pretty easy. That was really the only problem I had. Looking back, the hardest thing was just being on demand all the time, but if you start pumping early and get a good supply saved up then that won't be an issue for you. Make sure you find a breastfeeding support group in your area. I went to a group at the hospital every week and they would weigh the baby and talk about any concerns you may have. I don't think I would have lasted 17 months without that group.

I think it might be unrealistic to expect no problems at all with the first child you breast feed. There is a learning curve for both baby and mom. It also can depend on the size of your baby and if they have a small mouth. My baby was smaller and so getting her small mouth to latch on and learn to nurse was difficult for the first two weeks - that is why I got cracked and sore nipples. Later on I had a couple episodes of clogged ducts, but with the advice of a lactation consultant I was able to clear them out after a period of time, but yes there was pain associated with that. However, being triumphant was enough to keep me nursing. I think since you are not a first time mother, you might have a better go at nursing than a first time mother. I was clumsy with the new baby, so that was part of why I couldn't get the baby in the right position to help her learn to nurse. Hopefully your hospital will give you adequate help and make sure baby is nursing well before you leave. Good luck and nursing is definitely worth it.

I breastfed both my kiddies and had no problems! So it's out there. I even breastfed my preemie son who was hospitalized for 6 weeks. He didn't know how to nurse since all he really knew was hospital bottles. I worked with him for about 6 weeks once he got home to get him to the breast. It was a long 12 weeks of pumping round the clock but well worth it once he started nursing. He nursed till 16 months and my daughter was 20 months.

I never had any issues with cracking. There is a small amount of pain right in the beginning but no biggie. The biggest thing I noticed with my daugther (who was 37 weeks and took right to nursing) was that it really makes your uterus contract in those first couple of days. Which what nature intended but it can be a little "wow" when it happens. It only lasted a couple of days though.

The best advice I can give you is to be confident in your ability to feed your baby! Follow baby's cues and lead and you will do well. And don't be shy about joining a breastfeeding support group with veteran nursing moms to help you along!

Just make sure that you have the number for your local lactation consultant and don't leave the hospital until you are comfortable with the latch. Also see if there is a breastfeeding support group that you can attend.

For me, when my milk comes in, I get REALLY engorged. I wasn't told what to do the first time (pump!), and ended up with damage. This time (my daughter is 14 weeks), I knew about the pumping, but took my sweet time, so I did have a few days of cracked nipples, but then it was over and it just got better and better. About 7 weeks in, I all of a sudden realized that there was no discomfort. Give it a real shot, and be committed to it. It is sooo worthwhile!

Breastfed 3 babies with no problems! Slight discomfort at first and that was it. Most problems can corrected with help from a lactation consultant - lots are due to wrong latch, a little help fixes it great. Before my first I figured that women had done this for years, so I could too. Go in with a good attitude and see how it goes!

I had problems. I got sore nipples, mastitis twice with the same child, and just all-around pain from letdown and from my uterus contracting. (Breastfeeding helps it go down faster. But it hurts!)

In spite of all that, it was so very worth it. It was awesome to see my little men plumping up, gaining weight, hitting their milestones... and knowing that it was because I was able to give them what they needed to succeed.

No matter your decision, good luck. Little ones are awesome!