We went a little overboard with our daughter's presents this year. My husband is deployed, so he ordered several things online for her & had them shipped home. I would total up how much we spent, but I don't know how much he spent! lol Plus I probably don't want to know the answer :) I'm guessing at least $500.
Hubby has also bought some things from Egypt to send home for me & some of my family. Don't know the cost on that either haha
I spent about $50 on hubby, but I couldn't really do much for him since he's overseas lol I'll have to treat him when he comes home for R&R. His birthday is also Jan 2nd. I think he spent about $100 on me.
For other family members, I think I've spent about $50-$60, though I don't know my portion of my parents' gifts lol We don't exchange much among adult family members. I buy for my 2 siblings & my nephew & my parents. Then we will draw names among the 6 young kids on my dad's side, so there's another $15-20 I'll spend later (we get together after Christmas).
We don't normally spend that much on our daughter, because we haven't been able to in the past. The bulk of the cost was a laptop my hubby got her, and I got her the Leapfrog Leapster Explorer with a few games. Daddy's got her so spoiled! haha
Generally we just spend whatever we can afford at the time, while trying to get our daughter some of the things she asks Santa for.