Hi M.---Hello to Iowa from an Iowa native! Hope you are well today.
I am a reformed milk drinker. About 7 years ago I started down a path of wellness education, taking a series of classes taught by a Naturopath who has her PhD in Nutrition. Cows milk is designed specifically for a baby cow to grow up into a 2 ton animal very quickly. It is one of the most allergenic foods known to man, especially with how 'conventional' milk is produced today. I know, it seems counterintuitive as we are told that it is nature's perfect food. But, encouragement to drink milk comes from the dairy industry and the USDA, a govt entity set up to PROMOTE US agriculture. It is NOT a health organization.
But, don't take my word for it. Please go to www.pcrm.org and put dairy in the search box. Two other websites I recommend are www.thechinastudy.com and www.notmilk.com. The Naturopath also warns against all dairy.
There are plenty of reasonable substitutes for drinking cows milk. There are lots of plant milks, almond, rice, coconut, hemp,soy and oat milk. All are fortified. I just drink a smalll amount of water with meals and use these plant milks with cereal and smoothies and I usually use plain soy for cooking. You will get lots more ABSORBABLE calcium from plants, such as broccoli, bok choy, kale, sesame seeds and legumes, without the fat and dangerous dairy proteins. Even skim milk is .5% fat.
Having said all this, I do get my husband goats milk yogurt for when he has breakfast. He mixes a small amount with granola and tops with chopped walnuts and fresh or dried fruit. I also use small amounts of greek yogurt when I can't do without sour cream. When I need a bit of cheese, like for tacos, I always use organic. I just heard a report from Dr. Pam about how the EPA won't allow the dumping of contaminated milk because the antiobiotic residues would pollute ground waters. But our govt allows us to drink the same the same milk. Seems a bit strange to me.
I hope this has helped. I would be weaning him from cows milk and have him start drinking more filtered water. If you want some ideas on how to insure a healthy nutritious diet, I can help there, with info I've learned from the Naturopath. There a a lot of great strategies that you can use to optimize the nutrition, diet and health of your entire family. Be well, D.