I don't have hardwood floors (YET), but a great cleaner that will get up the oils, and not harm the wood is a product called Mox from Conklin. Another product that works well keeping a shine on hardwood (or tiles) is Stay and Shine. One of the best features about these products is that they are safe for your little one, as they work with no harmful chemicals, and they are concenctrated to last longer then store bought products. They also come with a money back guarentee.
The problem with Lysol and other cleaners is that they use chemicals to work. Are you sure you want your son to come in contact with something that is harmful? Murphy's Oil is great for an occasional use, but again, chemicals are in it. And Vinegar, though inexpensive, and natural, STINKS!lol
Here is a video that showcases the cleaners, the hardwood demo starts at around 3.5 minutes into the first video. The second video features a home that is cleaned with Conklin products, along with a 4-H building.
http://homebusinessdm.com/conklin-cleaning-product-overvi...
I'm not sure what happened to the styling of the website, so just overlook the layout, if you go looking around, I'm still trying to fix it. ;)
If you want more info after watching the video, please feel free to email me.
M. S.
Conklin Team Leader
http://diamondmenterprise.com
http://homebusinessdm.com