Reason #1001 why I'm so very grateful my child is in a private school. While we do follow many of the same guidelines as public schools, we are afforded the freedom to NOT be subjected to many of the governmental mandates.
Yes, we do have fire drills and what we call "emergency preparedness drills." First and foremost, the parents are notified in the weekly newsletter if a drill is scheduled for the following week. We are also text and emailed a reminder the morning of the drill.
In fact, earlier this year one of the teachers smelled a plastic-ky (not a word I know, but no way to describe it) odor. She called down to the office and the Principal immediately announced a fire drill over the PA system and pulled the alarm. The school was evacuated within minutes. The children were already outside on the playground before the first fire truck showed up.
Apparently all of the staff knows that if an impromptu drill comes over the PA it is a real threat of danger but they don't want to scare the kids so they act like it is a drill. I got a text and email alerting me of the possibility of a fire at the school and that all children and staff were evacuated and accounted for. I received the alert within minutes of hearing the town volunteer sirens going off. A follow up alert came about a half hour later letting us know that a water cooler in one of the teacher lounges had a wire short out and that was the burning plastic-ky smell. The water cooler was removed, the fire dept checked the entire building before allowing anyone back inside. My point in all of this is that communication is key. Can you imagine the panic that might have ensued had we all heard the sirens and the radio call for possible fire at our school without having the heads up from the school?
At the beginning of each school year during orientation assemblies the Principal explains the importance for such drills. However, she uses instances of bad weather that we would need to lock down for, or examples of should a child wander off from his/her classroom and we need to locate them immediately (like a walmart alert, although this has never happened and it is not the reason for the drill, it helps the children think of why it is so important to follow the directions given without scaring the bejesus out of them.), or if someone comes into the school without stopping in the office for a visitor's pass. She explains it in such a way that the children know everyone is required to wear a visitor's pass and we take our school security very seriously. Not once has she ever said a gunman or bad person wanting to hurt us. There are ways to address these matters without terrorizing our young children.
Our school holds separate assemblies for the elementary, middle school, and high school levels. I'm sure as the age of the student's increase the amount of information given to the students increases. I would not have a problem with the Principal explaining to the middle school and high school students the possibility of a gunman in the neighborhood causing a lock down, or even the possibility of an armed intruder at the school. I think the children in that age group are already aware of such possibilities and to sugar coat it just insults their intelligence.
Our school also has a "buddy up" program as part of our anti bullying campaign. Every middle & high school student is assigned an elementary school "buddy" at the beginning of the school year. Throughout the year the buddies do projects together, they make crafts, read to each other, make gifts for the kids parents, have lunch together occasionally, have ice cream parties, attend mass together, etc.
The older students really welcome the responsibility of looking out for their buddy. They really do care about the little ones. It's rather sweet. Our daughter still remains in contact with her buddies from prior years. The older children know they are privy to more information than the younger children and they know their job is to guide and protect their buddies. Therefore we don't have any of the older kids telling the younger kids what is really going on. They know they are supposed to make their buddy feel safe and secure at all times. It is a big responsibility that they take very seriously.
Does my 6 year old know there are bad people in the world? Yup, she sure does. We've explained that to her at HER level when we practice what to do if someone tries to grab her or touch her inappropriately. We don't do the whole "stranger danger" bit because frankly, it is not a stranger trying to harm your children. Why? Because once they introduce themselves to your child and start a conversation with them, then they are no longer a "stranger."
My child knows that there are sick people in the world that are so very unhappy that they try to hurt other people to make them feel as bad as they do. Her response is to pray for them so that they may find peace and comfort in their lives. I'm ok with that :)
I would most definitely contact the administration to find out why the parent's were not warned of the drill. Although I'm sure you will get the run of the mill response that they are not required or allowed to give warning.
Are you aware that all across the country terror drills are being performed in public schools where they actually remove your children from the school and bus them to an undisclosed location WITHOUT the parents knowledge or permission? You read that right. They are taking your children out of school, not telling the children it is a drill and not telling the parents about it until well after it is over. Utterly ridiculous.
I urge you all to check out the video on this link, it is an actual terror drill performed at a school. Read the article, educate yourselves on what is happening in our schools. Here is an excerpt from the article that really annoyed me:
During a terror drill at a public school in Muskegon County, Michigan, students and teachers were told that “homeschoolers” were the ones attacking them….
“The exercise will simulate an attack by a fictitious radical group called Wackos Against Schools and Education who believe everyone should be homeschooled. Under the scenario, a bomb is placed on the bus and is detonated while the bus is traveling on Durham, causing the bus to land on its side and fill with smoke.”
REALLY...Homeschoolers are attacking them???? Way to go government, let's just label homeschoolers as wack jobs because they do not conform to your way of thinking. Or how about this one:
In another case in New Jersey, students were told that the gunmen were from a group of “fundamentalist Christians” called “The New Crusaders”….
“Investigators described them as members of a right-wing fundamentalist group called the ‘New Crusaders’ who don’t believe in separation of church and state. The mock gunmen went to the school seeking justice because the daughter of one had been expelled for praying before class.”
I can't even wrap my head around that.... point taken, homeschoolers and Christians are the enemies....got it.
Google it for yourself and you will find hundreds of stories just like this one.
http://coupmedia.org/terror-threats-2703
I can tell you now, I would unleash all kinda crazy on an administration that allowed such a drill at my child's school. Seriously??? Armed men taking your children out of school at gunpoint while fellow students and staff lay bloody on the ground? I don't care if they are blanks. WTH???
Peace and Blessings to you and your son,
T. B