HYPER Is Not Even the Word

16 months is too early to be able to diagnose him as anything besides busy boy! But do keep track if he's reaching milestones within the acceptable range and keep a close relationship with a good pediatrician. If he truly does only have febrile seizures (not epilepsy--our son's started out as febrile but we later learned he had a seizure disorder that was being set off by the fever) that should have no bearing on his wild energy level. You might visit an occupational therapist to see what they think...he could have a little sensory processing disorder that makes him crave constant input to balance the central nervous system.

You might just have a genius on your hands and he can't wait to mature enough to use it!

Get a dog that will give him responsibility and match his energy level as he and the dog grow up together...

I would get a second opinion. If your gut is telling you there might be a connection between the seizures and behavior I would definitely check into it. At least do some research and see if you can find any similiar cases on the internet. Good luck!!!!!

Your his Mom, and if you feel something is wrong, there probably is. If your Dr. wont help I suggest going to a specialist or calling your local Early Intervention Agency for a complete Evaluation.

Also check out these sites--they may give you some insite:
ADHD 50 Conditions That Mimic ADHD
50 Conditions that Mimic ADHD

GL:)

Most professionals are reluctant to label a child as ADHD or ADD at such an early age... that doesn't mean you aren't dealing with it. My brother was diagnosed in Kindergarten (very rare to have it diagnosed at that age). However, for years we had been dealing with behavior issues that were not normal, even for a 2-4 yr. old. He was off the charts in the area of impulsiveness and hyperactivity. I can't say if this is the issue that you are dealing with, but it sounds like there is something going on. I would look for a doctor that will listen to your concerns and is willing to help you. Good Luck!

sounds like your little boy and mine have alot in common.
my son had a hemangioma in the roof of his mouth and the febrile seziures as well.
in my case they did not contribute.
what did work for me is limiting his sugar/complex carb intake. we basically put our son on a diabetic diet. that chilled him out alot. talk with your doctor about having him allergy tested.

D.,

Don't let your doctor negate your concerns for your child. You know your child far better than any doctor and you have experience with children. As the mom of 3 children with various special needs I can attest to the fact that sometimes you need to repeat your concerns LOUDLY in order to be taken seriously. You are the expert on your child - if your doctor isn't taking you seriously get a second or third opinion!

D., I have a granddaughter with a hemagioma on her forehead and she is a first born that is active. I don't think that could be the problem. One of the things I have studied and have seen affect children is chemical exposure. Cleaners in your home outgas and children's immune systems are not yet developed as we adults. In school the problem is very real and the teachers and staff are concerned since it appears the attention and behavioral problems are all too frequent to be just parenting or educational. I would suggest you explore what cleaners do to children. Go to this site and spend a few minutes http://www.cbc.ca/consumers/market/files/home/cleaners/in...
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C.

Hi D.,
In all the responses I read, it is amazing to me that noone has mentioned the old fashioned discipline idea. Kids are born into this world stinkers! It is our job to train them up and how we do this is by discipline. spanking is a great idea and works everytime when done appropriately and donein love! Warn him first and if the fits or behavior continues follow through with a firm swat a couple times. I have 3 boys and I have no repeated problems with disrespect, fits or anything of that nature because it wasn't tolerated in our home. We didn't just hope it went away. We did something about it. You are the parents and you should have the control in the home. It souunds to me like he is running the home with his behavior. After you rule out that their isn't a real problem with your doctor, I would advise you to begin to be firm with him and let him know who is boss. Children don't just become nice and learn how to behave on accident. We are the adults and we need to train them. If your son touch es the hot stove and it hurts him a little, Iam sure he won't do it again. Likewise, kids learn from spanking. It is not a bad thing when done in the right way. My sons are incredible kids but we are still training them as long as they are under our roof and until they are young adults someday. They are 14, 12, and 5. Hope this helps. I would start before it is too late!

Hi!
I have a friend who encountered a similar child. She was told to check for a food / food coloring allergies, I know it sounds odd, but that was one of the contributing factors.

D. it sounds like you don't have the right doctor for you and your son i would look in to finding a new doc i would stick with a ped doctor as far as the changing goes try to make it a game have him get the diaper get the wipe powder lotion what ever you use and tell ok it your job to hand it to me when we need it well i sure hope somthing helped