I Have a Houdini Child!

Updated on September 04, 2011
B.B. asks from Vancouver, WA
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I am a mom/foster mom to 5 kids ages 5 and under. We have a large family room that is open to another good sized living/dining area. I have different toy and activity stations set up around the rooms and have one of the rooms cut in half with a baby fence so there is a safe baby/toddler area. I use the baby/toddler safe area for my 16mo old when I am cooking dinner or working with one of the other kids. I can't give him run of the house because he gets into everything and my house is as child proof as I can make it but he still finds a way to get to the things that he shouldn't. He is also a climber and has figured out how to get over the fence so now I have no way to keep him safe unless I shadow him constantly which is impossible with 5 kids. Here is what I have tried to keep him interested in his play area - I keep his "alone" time short, I rotate toys out frequently as he gets bored with them, I spend time in there playing with him and the toys, I have tried a firm "no" the second I seem him climbing out (multiple times), I also give him time outside of the baby area where he can explore the house - I have to shadow him the entire time because the other kids have their toys out which may include small pieces. I never leave him unattended but these "alone" times are times that I am not shadowing him but am in one of the rooms. Does anyone else have things that have worked for their Houdini kids? He has learned how to open our sliding door and is a very fast mover, I need to find some way to keep up with him!

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A.J.

answers from Williamsport on

He is old enough to "train". We didn't baby proof and taught all the kids with discipline to react to "no" and what and what not to mess with at that age by giving a brief, firm, calm, consequence for ignoring "no" and continuing to climb, etc. That way they could have run of the house because they pretty much stayed out of hazardous things. I don't know his background being a foster child, if he was severely abused or something and you don't want to discipline? I was raised the same way though (taught with discipline not to get into everything) and it let my brother and have a lot of freedom. My toddlers could go anywhere and not trash people's homes (even my most stubborn ones), and I could watch everyone here alone while my husband traveled. If you want details let me know, I have a couple of toddler training books.

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J.K.

answers from Phoenix on

I have a 16-month old also and he sounds just like yours. I just try to do as much prep that I can while he naps. I have 5 kids too but he's the only one under 5 so I'm not in the same situation but I still feel it. Hang in there, you have an extra handful and there is not much you can do but the best you can.
Good luck!

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L.A.

answers from Dallas on

My older baby was like this and my younger one is shaping up to be the same way. It'll drive you nuts!

I would try all my tricks as long as I could but when my patience ran out, I'd pop her in the Ergo, on my hip so my arms were still free, and just let her hang out there for a while until I finished what I absolutely had to do.

My husband wore her on his back, and really she liked that even better, but I don't like not being able to see her as easily when it's just me at home.

I learned how to challenge her. I'd let her into a (mommy-approved) restricted area, like the tupperware cabinet and she'd think she'd won some sort of huge victory. Or, even at that young age, I'd find a way to include her as much as I can. At 16 months, she was helping me make juice or "cooking" in her kitchen across the room from me. We also, at one point, left the rotated-out-toys box in her room and let her have at it, trying to figure out how to get into the toys, etc. If she got the box open, we'd rotate the toys right then and let her back at it.

Some days were better than others, and I didn't have other kids to juggle, but I was very, very (very) pregnant so I still couldn't keep up with her as much as I needed to.

OOOO! I just talked to my husband about this. Interesting idea: what if instead of a "baby-safe" area you had an "everyone but baby" area where some of the more baby un-friendly toys could live but the baby couldn't get to?

L.G.

answers from Eugene on

I tied the chair legs to the dining room table so he could not move them and use them to aid him find things that were high up to keep him away. You only tie one out of the four legs. While cooking he sat in his high chair with amusing things on the tray. I talked to him and told him stories to keep his mind occupied.

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