I agree! I found it disgusting that once you get pregnant, society thinks it's ok to to think you are their property - touching you, asking you where you are going to deliver, even down to how much weight I gained! My response to that last one was, "Well, that was rude! How would you like me to ask you how much weight you've gained?" That ended the conversation right away and never got another question from that person again - it happened to be my grandmother who is always about being prim and proper...but I was DONE.
This worked for me on my first baby: I never made eye contact with anyone. I answered with vague answers and shut down the conversation:
Is it a girl or boy? "I don't know."
Where are you delivering? "At home" - most people had nothing to say - they couldn't find anything in common to keep the conversation going. LOL
Are you having twins??? "I don't know." The looks I got with this one was hysterical. One woman actually looked at me and said, "You know sweetie, your doctor can tell you." My response: "You think you want to get into this conversation with me, but you really don't." That ended that. LOL
Almost no one even tried to touch me....I must have given off BAD energy or somthing. I did have ONE MAN at the grocery store try to touch my belly. I moved away and told him no.
If someone was to ask to touch me, I usually obliged, but honestly, it almost never happened.
I'm not Asian and I thought it was weird and I don't mind sharing or being touched, but this was ridiculous. You have every right to feel the way you do. Just enjoy the pregnancy and follow your heart on how you need to handle things.