Let's say he's turning 35 years old - have a list of the 35 things you will do for him that day, yes some of them may be things he'll get as a gift (a bday card) but you could stretch out 35 things for the day I bet.
1. We'll make you breakfast - scrambled eggs with cheese (if he's going to work, have a small OJ and breakfast bar ready for him to eat in the car).
2. You get to watch whatever you want on tv today.
3. We're going to give you 35 hugs and 35 kisses today.
4. Photo (give him a photo of you and your daughter to keep in his car on the visor or at the office)
5. Lunch - we're taking you out to lunch today to your favorite pizza place
6. Beer - we'll buy you a beer at lunch!
35. (the last one of the night before bed) After daughter goes to bed, a special gift from me - specially wrapped for you to unwrap (if you catch my drift, A.).