My 12 month-old son has refused baby foods for quite a while now, and we're on a virtually 100% finger food diet. He also has a huge dislike for the Gerber Pasta Pickups, so I'm having to feed him regular foods. Feeding him with a fork or a spoon results in a battle after just a few bites because he'd rather try to feed himself with whatever utensil I'm using.
I try to give my son wholesome foods without depriving him of splurges now and again, and he usually eats what we eat.
For breakfast, I give him a buckwheat or whole grain waffle with fresh fruit. (I'm having a hard time finding good-for-you breakfast foods that are finger friendly and easy to prepare.) I have a microwave egg poacher, so I am considering adding eggs to his breakfast rotation as well as some microwave turkey sausage.
Some examples of lunch and dinner foods are: edamame, Boca patties, Boca nuggets, popcorn chicken, roasted chicken breasts, steamed pot stickers, luncheon meat, turkey patties, cheese cubes, roasted potatoes, shells and cheese, steamed veggies of all types, fresh fruits of all types, and tater tots. I try to make sure that he has protein, a healthy starch, and some sort of fruit or veggie at almost all of his meals, and I always have him try whatever we're eating, especially when we eat out.
Hope this all helps! I love being able to share food with my LO.