Hi J.,
I also have a 2 yr old, but she was weaned off the bottle at 12 months (cold turkey). She din't complain at all, but she had to use the sippy cups that come with a straw, versus the ones with a spout. She stopped drinking milk before bed and nap times at about 18 months. I just give her cereal in the morning, or waffles with milk, sandwiches, mac N cheese for lunch, and same dinner as me with water to drunk. I spread out what she drinks, milk for breakfast, juice for lunch and water for dinner (water througout the day). I also buy the Gummy Bear vitamins to help compensate for any missed vitamins in her food. I give her one after breakfast, and one after lunch, for a total of 2 per day. At 2 yrs, milk certainly is important, but not necessary to have more than 2 times a day. In my daughter's case, she only has it once a day. She's a little chubby, so I'm quite ok with giving her more fruits,veggies,and water, instead of milk. Try the cups with straw, that might help.