Dear A.: This can be a time to check with your local City
Officials to see if a Park would be available, as it usually
has Slides, and other play equipment, weather permitting. Your
husband could have a simple cook out at the park, and I bet if
you asked the ladies in your neighborhood they would help you
pull this all together with a few simple and yet special gifts
for your little one. Gerber used to make a Cassette with lullaby songs on it with your childs name in the songs. My daughter Naomi has one and it was a little piece of Heaven to
help her feel good and relax, as she started out with Medical
Problems, and was flown by Life Flight to Primary Childrens
Medical Center where the Nurses decorated an I.V. poll as Santa Claus which meant the world to my Wife and I. You will
find that many financial responsibilities will almost overwhelm you at times, but where there is a will, The Lord
will help you through these times, and know that this will make your Relationship Grow even stronger. Just like Christmas
Time, little ones are more Happy with the boxes than the gifts
inside. You and your Sweetheart could find some very BRIGHT
paper and put Special little gifts that she will love like a
mirror she can see herself in. A soft Doll or Stuffed Animal
that she can fit in her hands, but also soft like cotton that
she can rub against her little face and enjoy. It's the simple
things in life that mean more than the lavish things. Also you
and your Sweetheart can open a Savings Account for her and put
a little away when you can which will add up quickly. If it does rain on her day, there are many churches that would allow
you to use their Cultural Hall or a room to accomodate your family and they have kitchens as well. Most importantly make
her day with Lots of Love from You and your Husband, for she
looks to you for her Happiness. Oh and Happy Birthday to the
little Birthday Girl.
Sincerely; C. R. - Sandy, Utah