Hi M.,
I am 30 years old and am the proud mommy of 3 beautiful children. I have a 5 year old (who was conceived through in vitro), a 4 year old (who was conceived on our own), and an 8 month old (who we adopted at birth). I can tell you that I did my in vitro with a doctor in Boca (Dr. Denker). We had a great experience with him. On the other hand, I have also heard wonderful thing about Dr. Maxson (and know several people who have had success with him). The reason we chose Dr. Denker over Dr. Maxson was because we were able to get an appointment with him much sooner.
I know your original question was about a doctor, but I also noticed you mentioned adoption. I, too, had to "sell" my husband on adoption. I can honestly say that it is the best thing we have ever done, and my husband definitely agrees.
I wish you the best of luck... I have been through it all (in regards to infertility) and can say I know how you feel. I pray that it all works out for you.