M.V.
Hi C.,
Making a decision about vaccines in this day and age is really difficult and very personal. I can recommend an excellent book that really weighs the pros and cons of vaccinations: Vaccines: A Thoughtful Parents Guide (How to Make Safe, Sensible Decisions About the Risks, Benefits and Alternatives) by Aviva Romm. Aviva is a certified public midwife, president of the American Herbalists Guild, the mother of 4 and currently in medical school. Unlike a lot of the books out there, she cites everything she says from medical journals.
After reading her book, I actually made the decision to vaccinate my daughter, because of our lifestyle, my personality and ability to deal with sickness, and our love of travel. However, I found many helpful bits of information from her book about how I wanted to deal with vaccinations. The most important thing that I got from it is that a child's immune system needs to be strong before giving them vaccines. So, if there is the slightest sign of a cold, delay them! It's no big deal. Don't make a baby fight to build antibodies to a vaccine if they're already fighting some other illness. Also, she had suggestions for getting extra vitamin C in to baby. I was nursing, so I wuld take a megadose of Vit C for a few days before the vaccine was scheduled. There are also homeopathic Vit C tablets you can give to baby that are safe, to help them build up their immunities.
As for vaccines + autism, it seems this is still a huge battleground without too many studies supporting the connection. However, Mothering Magazine (www.mothering.com) has done a series of excellent articles on the issue. Their most recent issue also featured a disturbing article on aluminum in vaccines, and the fact that there is no data supporting the safety of aluminum in babies. I highly recommend you check it out.
Hope this is helpful!