I would make a list of priorities for each room, that is, what are the primary uses for the room. Your focal point gives you a place to start(especially when you're starting over!) and helps keep you organized and to-the-point so you don't get off track or distracted by the overwhelming amount of choices. A focal point could be something small like a favorite vase, pillow, or picture that you use as inspiration for colors or something as large as an entertainment center. Then, go to Half Price books or some place that has a good selection of magazines, and pick up a handful of magazines to scan through and find pictures/ideas of things you like. Each room will most likely be a work in progress until you've lived with them for a while. I would start with the bare minimum in each room, getting only what you must have to function, and then, as you spend time in each room imagine specific things that would improve the room for you and your family. Always go with your gut instinct. If you're agonizing over a decision, going back and forth, or talking yourself into something don't do it! Hold out for things that you know that you love. If it's not a sure thing, wait a while before you commit. If you're still having a hard time making decisions or stuck in a rut, don't be afraid to think outside the box and force yourself to regroup and think about other possibilities. Better Homes and Gardens, Good Housekeeping, and the IKEA catalog have been helpful to me at times, but the person who really taught me all this is my sister who has an awesome sense of style and has moved 8 times! She taught me basics like, one of the first things you need in a living area is a "conversation circle" which is a clearly defined area with furniture arranged so that people can see and talk to each other comfortably. If you have a friend/relative whose style you like and would be willing to help, a fresh perspective is priceless sometimes! I was so clueless until my sister helped me. Now, between her teaching me the basics and me living in my house for a while and forcing me to trust my instincts, I finally feel somewhat confident in arranging/decorating a room! Good luck!