K.W.
Hi K.,
Personally, I agree with the "she'll do it when she's ready" philosophy. I just potty trained my 2 1/2 year old last week and it took her one day to get the hang of it. I believe it is her personality, she has always been early doing everything and very independent. However, my son, who is now 4 1/2 was a whole different story. He took much longer to be fully potty trained, and so I let him go at his own pace. He started out great with the peeing but did not want to go poop. He would get very adamant about not wanting to go on the potty so I would ask him when I knew he was going to go, but did not force the issue. My doctor said forcing the issue will only backfire and I agree. I eventually just kept him in underwear and when he had to poop he would ask for a pull up. I went along with this because otherwise he would hold it in! This went on for a couple weeks and then all of a sudden one day he just said "Mommy, I want to poop on the potty" and from that day on he was potty trained.
I think you are doing everything right, give it some time. Every child is different, some are earlier some are later. "She will do it when she's ready". Good luck.