From experience.... your child may be paying attention! Both of my children were labeled as not paying attention. However, when asked questions about what was going on in class, could tell their teachers EVERYTHING that went on and almost word for word what was said. Some teachers feel that if the student isn't looking them in the eyes 100% of the time, that they are not paying attention at all.
Needs to be more independent with getting her work done? ! Have her define independent. Is she NEEDING help because she doesn't understand or is she getting help from her friends in class as a way of being with her friends. My daughter did this one. She IS a social butterfly! And the same may be true with your daughter. If she has no one to play with at home, the classroom setting is a playground for her.
Reading...... I understand that "the system" wants our children reading above their grade level. But to lable a child as being in the LOWEST level in class is just WRONG! It might be true... but... Give the girl the chance to grow! Especially if you haven't had as much time to read with her as you would have liked. She WILL improve. My daughter was at the same level when she was in K5...Now she is in 4th grade and is reading at 8th grade, 3rd month level. It just takes time.
DEFIANT:!!!!! She probably is defiant if all she gets from the teacher is greif!
Sounds to me that the teacher is the one with the biggest problem. She doesn't want to spend the time cultivating minds and talents... she's too busy pointing blame in the wrong direction.
What, if I may ask, is the school that your child attends? You spoke of the fast pace. Is she in the learning magnet or other magnet program. Or is she in a regular curriculum setting ... it makes a difference.
My son stayed in trouble all the time at Waddell, until we (the teacher, principal and me) realized that he would benefit from going to St. Elmo once a week. HE GOT IN TROUBLE BECAUSE HE WAS B O R E D!
She's punished enough at school by being labeled as a problem child. Don't Punish her at home too! Praise her for the good things that she has done. If yesterday she made a 13 on her conduct grade and today she made a 15... CELEBRATE IT AND HER TOO! If she knows that she has unconditional support as well as love at home, she will want to do better to make you proud of her.
Here is a website that I want you to check out for her. I have my daughter set up on it. It has made a big difference not only with school work but with home life as well.
www.handipoints.com
Check it out.... it's great!
Again, she might need a smaller class size, but not for the reason that you think she might need it for. Children with a gifted intellect have different needs than most. They seem to some on the outside that they don't pay attention or are slow or are defiant. But are actually very bright and eager to learn.
Talk to the Kindergarten resource director for her school and see if you can have her tested for the Gifted Education Program (or even contact the Principal at Hannan Elementary if you are in muscogee county) and find out what she needs before the teacher has her labeled learning disabled. Please!
Feel free to contact me if you have further questions.