J.M.
My family and I have been going to Edwards Orchard (as posted by another) for numerous years, and we love going every year as a family tradition. We like it because there is no general admission (as of 2008; we haven't gone yet this year), and it is not a "super-duper" place with so many things that you can't possibly get to all of them (or go broke by paying for them all). Definitely get the cider donuts (sooooo delicious). Might be a bit of a drive, but I think it's worth it. Hope you find a great place to start a tradition!