A.,
I understand where you are coming from. I had my children when I was 18, 20, 23 and 33. They are now 7, 17, 20 and 22 years old so that makes me 40. I would never put you down for having children at your age. But what you might be perceiving as put downs from some people is more of a pity response. So many people regret having kids so young. I never understood that. But recently I have at least come to a place of understanding how some people would feel that way. I do realize how how much I missed out on by not really going out and living life before I became a mother. But there is nothing that can be done to change it now for me and nothing that can change it for you.
I know I'm responding to the section about you and not your request. I don't know of any external preschools. But I do know that I love teaching and I would be pleased to talk with you about part-time care if it's just a matter of getting your daughter up and out of the house and getting her ready for school. I offer preschool curriculum to my children in my daycare. But most of my kids are still toddlers and we are just now gearing up for more teaching in the year to come.
If you want to just chat about ways you can get her ready for school let me know :) If you want to chat about anything email me.
take care
Suzi