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Like REbecca, I loved having a midwife. Of course I have nothing to compare it to since I only have one child. But I can tell you a little bit about it. Many people are concerned about the safety factor; some midwives do have the ability to start an IV, give IV fluids, give pitocin AFTER you've had the baby (in a case where you might be bleeding excessively), neonatal cpr, administer oxygen, etc. They can numb and stitch up a tear, if you have one. In some cases they would have to transfer you to a hospital. Luckily most births are normal births and require none of the above. My experience took place at a birth center so I can't really tell you what it's like to have a midwifery experience at a hospital, but I'll offer some advice. Look for a hospital with a birth center with birth stools, large balls for sitting, perhaps a whirpool/tub, these are signs that you will get a more satisfying experience as you will have several options for getting comfortable during your labor. If you go with an OB ask if he/she delivers only with women lying down or if he/she is willing to accomodate the laboring woman who wants to sit/stand/squat/etc. This, in my opinion, is another good sign that you will have a more comfortable experience. Midwives allow you to eat and drink during labor rather than giving IV fluids. They also use "spot checks" for checking baby's heart rate so you don't have to use a continuous monitor. Sorry I can't recommend a specific OB for you. I used Tracey Bowman (mentioned in previous post) and she was great. Good luck to you!