I used Tushies about 10 years ago with my first, I really liked them. Hopefully they haven't changed. Seventh Gen were ok, but they felt like the generic brand diaper I was paying extra for. I never used the other 2. Remember to avoid commercial wipes as well. The advice nurse told me the other day they leave a residue on baby that allows the bacteria in poop to "feed" so baby ends up with a worse rash. Nice, huh!! I don't know about wipes by the above mentioned companies though.
I have never tried Gdiapers, but I heard from a few cloth diapering mamas that they were a big pain & they'd rather just use a disposable.
Most diaper companies say the gel is safe, but I hate finding it touching my baby's skin. And it always seemed to find it's way out of the diaper on onto baby.
I was in the same EXACT boat as you. DH was totally against cloth. He has two older boys & had lots of exp. changing dipes. With my first son, who is now 9.5, I listened to him & used sposies. He had lots of reasons, like cloth leaked (which it doesn't when you easily find the dipe that works best for you, we only had one brand leak for our DS and honestly disposables leak WAY more - that lovely poop up the back and all over both of us!) but it really came down to thinking cloth was not as easy. With DS #2/4, 3 months old, I brought it up again after the initial newborn phase. (We did all early diapering in sposies.) He was REALLY against it. He got mad at me, but I made him agree that we'd at least try it, after all it was important to me and I didn't want to just give in again. If it didn't work, then that was ok, we'd go back to disposable. (He was working a lot atm & only changed a few diapers anyway, so why did I listen to him the first time around? - he didn't like that argument) I promised all laundry duties would fall to me, since that was a big concern. (Like he does any laundry but his own anyway LOL) So I bought a few different kinds of cloth diapers & found we BOTH like them BETTER than disposable!! He really likes the AIO's or pockets if I have prestuffed them. His faves are sposoeasy, but bumware extreme & Bum Genius one-size aio/pockets are just fine for him as well. He prefers Velcro (aplix) over snaps (since that is most like a disposable). I make sure to have everything in order, easy for him to grab & the system is exactly like he was using a disposable! I also found using cloth wipes in a wipe warmer was WAY easier when cloth diapering because you can "throw away" everything into the same receptacle for laundering. I just cut up a few extra receiving blankets to use as wipes, so it didn't even cost anything.
Big Bonus: baby got over all those rashes! And I am a happier mama! But don't let it fool you, once you get into cloth diapering, you get addicted so while it CAN be cheaper I find that I love spending money on dipes & trying new stuff.