M.C.
I am so sorry that you are going through this.
I had a miscarriage in 2005 at 11w, but my body didn't acknowledge it. They went in and did a D&C that night. It all happened so fast. I was sleep at the time and didn't get to see my baby. I regret that. I don't know what it would've looked like, but I wish I had at least seen it and held it. I also don't know if it was a boy or girl. I REALLY regret that too. It's been 3 1/2 years and I still grieve for that baby, even though I went on to become pregnant again a few months later, and delivered a healthy baby girl.
M.