The best thing for you to do is just be supportive for her. You can't do anything really right in this instance.
With my second baby, completely unexpected since I was scheduled for a hysterectomy, all signs pointed toward miscarriage. I was bleeding heavily which was weird because I almost never had periods in the first place.
My levels were so low. We chose not to tell my daughter or anyone else for that matter.
The doctor prepared me for the worst and I accepted it. My heart was broken, but what could I do but be prepared?
All I can say is that my son is a miracle and he is responsible for fighting all the odds.
Looking back, there was nothing anyone could have done or said to help. I really was in shock myself when I learned that my levels had gone up.
Even the doctor was surprised.
Miracles do happen.
They really do.
If this isn't the time for her miracle, it's not the end of the world.
That's what you need to let her know.
I lost a baby at 6 months pregnant so I guess I might have been a little more emotionally prepared than some. I just left it to God. I had no control over it.
My son is such a great joy to me. I waited a very long time for him.
Be supportive, no matter what.
There is something positive in every thing that happens, even if we can't see it at the time.
I pray that there is a miracle in the works for your sister too.
Best wishes.
