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Funny----I had some about 12 years ago when I was single and I used them just to help out with "recreational endeavors". Honestly, I'd forgotten all about them until you posted this. I don't know about incontinence or anything, but yes I liked them just fine for a workout. Maybe I should pick some up again? Kegels, I do. When I'm driving around, or on the computer, or whatever. Not just straight flexing but also forward, backwards, and "rolling" the muscle. Ben Wa balls are better at strengthening though, in my opinion. Think of the kegels vs ben wa question like the difference between flexing your arms like you're simulating a curl, or curling with a 3, 5, or 10 lb weight. Kind of like that.