R.D.
So, so sorry for your loss. You've received some great advice so far, so I'll keep mine brief. I found out the pregnancy ended and waited two weeks to miscarry on my own. It didn't happen, so I had a D&C. I'm glad I had the D&C because I had the peace of mind that the doctors got it all, and more importantly, the doctor had the tissue tested and found an issue. If I had miscarried on my own, we wouldn't have known about the issue. So another vote for D&C. I was awake for mine. It wasn't pleasant but the nurses and doctor were fantastic, caring, and warned me about the more "uncomfortable" parts. Urban myth I've heard too is that you get pregnant very quickly and easily after a D&C. Best wishes for a speedy recovery and successful pregnancy in the future.