My daughter is an early reader. She started reading at 4. Now she's in kindergarten and has been reading for 2 years. At home, she reads chapter books. At school, she is learning sight words like "the" "and" "he", etc. She is bored at school when they teach reading. I didn't teach her how to read. She just figured it out on her own when she was ready to. She's also high-functioning autistic (Asperger's) and reading early is actually pretty common with this diagnosis--probably because their brains are wired differently.
So, my question to you is...why do you want your child to read at a young age? Is it really that important? Do you want them to be bored in school?
I think it's great to give kids the tools to be able to read in a timely fashion...read to them often, have lots of books that they can look through, provide phonetic toys so they can learn their letters and the sounds these letters make. But personally, I don't think it's great to actually try to get them to read at a young age. Allow them to do it when their brains are ready for it. When their brain is ready, the reading will come very easily.
C.
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