My Son Keeps Tearing Apart My Stuff.

Personally, I would not choose to fight that battle! I'd minimize my stuff ideally to fit in the smaller closet. Or move the stuff to a basement, another room, under the bed bin...
Also, can't you hear him getting up and doing this stuff (breaking hangars) if he's in the same room? I think getting up before him would solve the entire problem.
It makes me nervous that he's getting into stuff AND his sister's crib with no supervision! O. of them could get hurt. And he is little so I don't agree with the idea of "making him sit in his room on his bed with no toys only coming out to eat." Good luck!

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General rule of thumb is 1 min in time out for year of age. So a 2 yr old would have a 2 min time out. I'd worry about him getting into the bay window, not so much because of the clothes but because he might fall out (less of a worry if you are on a 1st floor). He needs a safe place to play where he can't get into trouble. Short of getting things into an armoir so they are not accessible, I'm not sure what you can do with the living space that is available.

They make a motion sensor device for cats that squacks really loudly when it is triggered. I would be tempted to surprise him with setting it up and having it go off when he disturbs the closet stuff, thus waking you and catching him in the act rather than after the fact. He then doesn't get the fun of success, just the consequences.

I also think this is his way of saying he's bored and it's not okay that you're not awake and taking care of him. He's getting attention out of it, even if it's negative attention. Perhaps you need to re-evaluate how your day is set up so that he is getting more one on one attention and you are getting up earlier and engaging him in something else.

I agree with the others about getting attention. I would ignore him the next time he does this. Just pick up the mess and don't show him any attention. Go on about your morning. Later on, tell him that you don't like when he does that and how much it would help you if he didn't do it anymore. Toddlers will test you and when they get a reaction they keep it up... whether it's a positive or a negative behavior. Good luck neighbor! I live in Hazard.

I love the motion sensor suggestion. I have a 2 yr old and she gets into everything. She opens my drawers and takes things out so I have everything all over the floor. Very frustrating. I cannot just lock her out of my room because it is her room too and we do not ahve anywhere to put her stuff (we already have her toys ina bench in the living room). One thing a friend of mine did long ago when she did not have a bedroom closet or have room for a wardrobe was put planter hooks in the ceiling. Then she used the kind of chains that would hold a heavy hanging plant to hold as rod for her clothes. This might work for you. The clothes would be higher up than he would be able to reach.

how old is your son? if hes 10 then 10 mins of time out is fine but its one min per age is the normal guideline any more than that and they forget why they are there. you could try putting a piece fo wood on the heater so its a little more tippy and might scare him sorry im not more help