Oh, now this is where I can truly say I am experienced! My son had this procedure back in November, and it was great! First off, get it done at CHKD, they are the best! If you haven't picked a doctore yet, I would say Dr. Shroyer, I cna't remember where he's located, but if you go to the CHKD website, you'll find him. By the time we got checked in (5:30am) he was up and playing with the other kids, and didn't even ask for a drink or something to eat, which is good, because I couldn't give itto him anyways. Then, a little while later, the nurses came to get him (which is the hardest part because you can't go with them), but then, we went downstairs, got something to eat (they let you bring it up back up to the waiting area), before we were even finished eating, the doctor came out, said it went great, my son was ready to see me. Then you go back to the recovery room, and you sit down with them, and just wait for them to come out of the anesthetic, once that wears off, and he drinks at least one cup of juice, they let you go home. We bought him an Elmo balloon, his favorite, helps them cheer up! When we got home, we all took a nap, and by the time he woke up from his nap, you would have never had guessed he even had surgery, and not only did he have tubes put in, he also had his adenoids taken out. And he pulled through like a champ! They do give you something for the pain for them, but I only gave him some that first night, just in case something would start hurting through the night, but nothing happened, he slept fine, woke up fine, everything was fine!
So, I hope this helps put your mind at ease, I'm so glad I did it, his colds have been heaven, because he used to catch an ear infection everytime he got sick, but not anymore!!
So no, don't be worried, he'll be fine, you'll be fine, everything will be fine!
Good Luck,
T.