It sounds like you'd daughter may be like mine was, she was afraid of missing something, lol! Even when she nursed she'd jerk her head away at any sound, ouch :-/ She would take naps for my Mom, who watched her while I worked, but for me, no way.
So I asked my Mom how she got her to nap (she had 11 of us, so I KNEW she had a method) and she told me she wore her out physically, then shut everything down. When she was a year she still wasn't walking, so my Mom was still making a play area on the carpet with toys all around the room for my daughter to have to work, by crawling or whatever method, to get to. She'd let her get some easily at first to get her to play along, then move them further away. She'd do this about an hour before she wanted her to go to sleep, for about a half an hour to 45 minutes. When she saw she was tiring she'd give her a cup of milk, turn off lights and TV's, draw drapes, and let her play quietly on the floor or bed with unexciting toys like a couple of plush animals. Sometimes she'd play with my daughter's hair, gently running her fingers through it to relax her, talking in whispers or not at all. And covered her and let her sleep where she went down. On nice days she took her in the backyard or strolled her to the park to play on a large blanket doing the same, she'd always fall asleep on the way home, so Mom put her in the stroller after the backyard, strolled to the front and maybe to a couple of houses and left her in it when she went to sleep.
I thought, "Oh, sure, that'll work," but tried and it all worked together, meaning, no wearing her out and not shutting things down, she'd re-energize, or just try quieting everything down, it didn't work.
As she began to walk it was even easier, she'd run around to get toys at home or at the park a block from our apartment. It also worked to do it again before dinner so she'd sleep well that night. After dinner the TV was off, her bath warm, the lights dimmed, talking in whispers, a story, and she was out.
So try lots of physical exercise, really lots, then quiet everything down, no excitement at all. Hope this helps :)