First of all, don't beat yourself up. We all want to be Super Mom.
I WISH I was as good as keeping my house together as you are. I try so hard but there is just so much time in the day.
I work from home and most of the time hubby is here working as well..... Meaning no noisemaking housecleaning when on conference calls, making sure dogs are not barking, and staying on schedule for daughter's activities. We run our own company. I tend go get busy on the laptop with Quickbooks, daily reports, etc and BAM, 2 hrs went by. Then I realize I haven't showered, YIKES and it is 8:30am already. Of course, I do check Mamapedia and FB,
I'm also taxi driver for daughter to and from her activities and for 3 weeks (only 7 days left YEAH) summer school because she wanted to get rid of health in summer since it is so easy and not use a whole semester with it. SO, we leave at 7:30am, I get home about 8:30am and before you know it, I have to leave by 12:45 to get in a line at 1 to pick her up when she gets out at 1:30. Today we were rushing from summer school to get home, grab a bite, dress and go to a photo shoot for an hour in the TX heat. I STILL have not finished what I started this am on the house but my company books/records look darn good. I am great at keeping all the paperwork, organization of the company and family business but I feel like a failure at keeping my house ready for model inspection like I would LOVE to do.
I don't go the gym to workout, although I have a membership, I do walk a lot, because I have 3 dogs that I adore and they need to play and walk. I walk to clear my head and it helps me exercise.
I am very efficient when it come to running the business and being President of the cheer boosters in prime fundraising season but I find that my house starts lacking. When my house jobs start lacking, I start feeling like a loser and wonder how the Super Moms do it.
SO...you are not alone. I will read your responses with interest to see what kind of things I can do to be more efficient!!