F.:
I like your positive attitude while going through such a hard time. Kudos to you for keeping a good outlook on life.
Secondly, I would take a look at the options you have with those will forms at Office Depot or one of those stores before consulting an attorney.
You don't want to spend too much money on what can be "just paperwork" issues. I used to be a paralegal and I have to re-do my will also as I had another baby last year. What I am going to do is modify my last will to include anything I think is important, delete the rest (those investments that we cancelled) and get it notarized by someone that i know in the legal dept at my husbands work.
this is not legal advice by all means, so if you feel more comfortable going to an attorney, I would look for someone close that you know that is an attorney or knows of a good one, rather than being referred to someone. You never know what your experience may be with them.
Best wishes,
Kim B.