L.A.
I have the perfect idea. My girlfriend does birthday parties. She comes dressed up as your daughter's favorite Disney princess. Little girls think it is so real. She has an interactive story with games, dancing, and gifts for all with a special gift for the birthday girl. She is really sweet and beautiful (she's great with kids, she has 3 young ones herself.) www.Jessicasprincessparties.com I have no idea what her charges are... but you can always ask! I have heard that girls and boys absolutely love her!
Also, I'm a hairstylist and can create little packages for girls. www.lisashairdesigns.com I can work with you on a budget. They could have their hair done up and a little make-up... it could be a dress up party with little boas, tiaras, tutus, veils, hula skirts...