W.W.
I bribed my child so I'm probably not the best authority on this! I gave him three (sugar-free) jelly bellies every time he sat on the toilet to go poop. At one point, he was stopping half way through, showing me, wiping, then flushing and doing it again. I always gave him the candy. Then after 4 months, I reduced it down to 3 pieces. It has been over a year and he hasn't pooped since. However, this technique did not work for my friend's girl. What did work is even worse, but it worked. The little girl pooped her pants and didn't say anything to her mommy. The girl's friend she was playing with looked at her and told her she was too old to still poop her pants and that she didn't want to play with her anymore. It was sad, but it worked. My point is eventually he won't poop his pants anymore. Someone will say or do something that will trigger to him that it is better to go in the toilet. Oh, you could try the "Everybody Poops" book or the Mo Willhelms book "Time to Poop". I don't think they helped my son, but he loved the stories and I always kept an extra copy in the bathroom for him.