Hi J.~ I did a Dragon & Fairies party for my sons 4th birthday...but definately not dragontales! Most of the party guests were older & we focused on fantasy & magic, not cartoons. Here's some of our activites/ideas:
* Decorations included fairies hanging in the front hall (cut out from stiff felt), lots of glitter & confetti in our blue & purple theme, helium balloons resting on the ceiling with long curling ribbons hanging down, my sons dragon collection displayed on the table. We invited guests to come in costume.
* I did exactly what a pp suggested & baked a sheet cake, cut it into a dragon shape & frosted it together. I even used the red licorice for flames! If you go this route, be prepared to do a 'crumb coat' of frosting, cut cake edges are very crumbly.
* We set up a 'make your own wings' craft - I cut out dragon & fairy wing shapes out of different colored posterboard (including black), we provided wonderful, interesting paper, fabric, glitter, stickers, water-based paint markers, feathers, etc. & guests made their own wings. This was a GREAT activity & would probably have been even more successful for older kids. The adults enjoyed it too!
* We also set up a face makeup & temporary tatoo station("The Painted Dragon Tatoo Parlor"), with Auntie in charge, 'tho most of the kids wanted to do their own makeup.
* A parade of dragons & fairies were led by 'dragon drum' to the space set up for the rest of the party activites.
* We played "pin the tail on the dragon"... I painted a large dragon (which also worked well as decoration), & we cut out 'dragon tails' out of poster board. This was also a surprisingly sucessful activity. All the kids loved it -- tons of giggles. We tailored the difficulty to the child's age (blindfolded, spun or not, etc.)
* A quick blessing for my Son and the other Scorpio guests (4 whose birthdays were within a week)...sprinkling glitter on the blessed person & saying a special wish for them. The kids also loved this - both receiving & giving. Yay, glitter! (Note: We do have a really great vaccuum cleaner.)
* Goody bags had dragon & fairy stickers, dragon stencils, tiny fairies, blue & purple foil wrapped chocolate eggs (dragon eggs), glitter pencils.
All of this plus cake & presents was more than enough! The party went later then I planned even tho' we dropped an activity. I must say that this was one of the most fun parties we've had -- for me as well as for my son. I really enjoyed setting it up & playing in the fantasy world we created. The children's wings were wonderful & seeing everyone dressed up & playing was beautiful. We have fantastic pictures! Hope some of this was helpful. Enjoy your party!